What you want me and other black people to do is demonize our own. I'm not gonna do that. The reason there is so much violence in poor urban communities is POVERTY. Not rap music. Not black culture as racists would like to believe.
Rap music is a reflection of the realities in these communities. It's not the cause.
The cause of violence is POVERTY. Poverty induced by a racist socio-economic system that has left black people behind.
If you want to know how I'm helping stop violence in poor urban communities, it's by advocating for wealth and income redistribution. It was by voting for Bernie Sanders in the democratic primary. It was volunteering for the ACLU in advocating for criminal justice reform.
That's how we stop violence in our community and help our people.
It's not by demonizing our people or culture as you want us to do.
Your first statement shows the problem. By not demonizing bad people you accept them. By pushing blame onto anyone else except those who make bad decisions you allow generational mistakes to keep continuing.
I transferred into one the best private schools in Cincinnati as a sophomore. I had 3 buddies who came from the worst projects and ghetto's in this city. 2 from single parent homes, 1 from a 2 parent household.
Now, the one from the 2 parent household was a wrestler, and his dad made it known that Tommy would go to school, he would graduate, and he would wrestle in college. Tommy, who I sh** you not had a group of friends that at 16, had all dropped out of school. Tommy liked being thuggish and a bad boy. He was a good guy, but, his friends were trash. Tommy was a state champion wrestler, and had scholarships to many schools. Tommy decided he wanted to be like his buddies. He didn't go to college, he got involved in coke and distribution and bringing it in across from state lines.
Even with the world open to him and many great options he decided he wanted to be a thug. Nevermind his 2 parents who did everything they could to raise a child with a future,
he decided to go another route. No one to blame but Tommy.
Now the other 2 from a single family unit, that were surrounded by less than stellar conditions, kept their heads grounded and decided that their friends were not truly their friends.
They concentrated on making sure
they did what
they could to get out of the crap heaps they grew up in. They spent more time at school, got better grades than Tommy, and they made it a point to distance themselves from the trash surrounding them. Both went on to college, one to an Ivy league school.
What is ironic here, how much crap these guys received from their so called friends and how much crap they took for trying to be better. It wasn't, hey we are happy for you, it was envy and jealousy and some ridiculous black pride hate whitey bs. Those who were giving these guys a hard time didn't concentrate on bettering themselves just trying to tear them down.
So, who is to blame for the life direction made by these 3? No one but themselves. Even with a great family and many options for a bright future, 1 decided to go another route and be like his loser friends and deal drugs. 2 didn't. Why? Personal choices.
Until each individual is held to a standard of individuality, not group think, then nothing is going to change. The choices of the individual made around group think keep repeating the same mistakes over and over perpetuating the same generational mistakes. So, you need to demonize those within the community that keep repeating the same mistakes before anything will change.