This is a valid point and one that reflects greatly on us as a program. The big difference between an upset win and a rivalry win, and a huge (read: 1998 FL) win, has little to do with our opponents and much more to do with how we view ourselves.
In the 90s, UT looked damn good every year, but couldn't figure out Steve Spurrier, and when we finally finally beat the Gators it was a watershed moment. The UT-FLA series was probably the best in football in the 90s, and the person who claimed it claimed the lion's share of the credibility in the conference. And when we finally won, Tennessee's constant brushes with greatness were validated. We were free to play the year out knowing destiny was in our hands. Everyone was excited, frenzied more accurately, because we believed Tennessee was a winner. When Tennessee got off the bus, people believed UT was for real.
When we beat Florida this past year, it wasn't the same. Yes, we won, but I don't think anyone thought we were suddenly unbeatable or destined to be on top of the world. Sure we were all excited, and it was awesome, but even then we weren't fooling ourselves. I think maybe -- MAYBE -- that changed a little after Georgia. I know when UT roared back at the end of the A&M game, I felt like I did back in the 90s. I believed they had it in them to come back and win. But, well, we know how that went, and all that emotional confidence popped just in time for Alabama to roll in and throttle us.
Until we show the ability to really dominate conference opponents, until we stop losing to converted wide receivers and Vanderbilt and Wil Muschamp, until we're competitive with that school down south of us, we're always going to be in a stop-and-start "upset" mode. We can enjoy wins, but we can't really feel like we're rivals on any great stage. Because I don't think anyone, and especially most Tennessee fans, believe Tennessee is a dominant program right now. 8-4 is slightly above average. And at best, we've been slightly above average in terms of performance and results. Until that changes, we can't really engage in rivalry chatter. But Lord I hope that day is soon. I hope it's real soon.