I think we agree on more than you think. He doesn't like taking orders, or following rules or doing anything that doesn't benefit himself. The easiest of those to overcome and still have a job is an O.C. I agree if he is going to be successful then he should stay at Ole piss and really prove to everyone that he can be a grown-up.
Kiffin has never won as a head coach anywhere that matters. Up until this point, he is the most overrated and underperforming coach in my life time. He is one heck of an offensive mind but there is so much more to football success. He has had 1 season with 10 wins in a major college football and that was in left coast football.