Your first sentence is just more reason you should oppose this.
But let’s go with your comparison you seem to be making that it’s not different than “Christian brainwashing”. If 82% of Christian’s attempted suicide, it would be really hard to claim “we should allow them to brainwash children, because we should live and let live”
If the trans advocates were open to “live and let live” you’d be correct that “live and let live” is the best option. But that’s not what is occurring here. And it’s another area that your “Christian” comparison shows how radical these people have became.
If a government employee refused to take a kid back to their home because the kid was Christian and the family atheist or anything else, the employee would be fired immediately. But now in some areas this is becoming standard if the child is “trans” and the parents disapprove.
How are examples like that “live and let live”? Or you suggestioning people opposing such policies should just “let them have control, and allow yourself and your family to be controlled”
The majority of us on the right, even on VN, are open to “live and let live” (adults are welcome to self mutilate) The trans advocates and the left in general are not.