When it's my government doing the bombing, yes it is an "American problem", regardless of what does or doesn't occur when someone else is dropping the bombs.
Honestly, it's sadly hilarious to watch you ghouls tout tracking the ayatollah through a city with hacked cameras, and drop a precision-guided munition on him from space out of one side of your mouth, and out of the other side, defend dropping a bomb on a school full of kids as acceptable collateral damage, because somewhere in some other war, some other government probably did something similar.
There's nothing more 'un-American' than blind deference to a government.