This is absolutely true. And I don't get it, either.
Y'all rival Nebraska fans on the arrogance scale. It's like the last two years of Mizzou/Tennessee didn't happen.
Nebraska owned Mizzou for YEARS.
The disrespect you perceive stems from the fact that many of us do not believe you've "earned" it yet. Last year, time after time opponents suffered critical injuries or issues just before playing you. What you experienced with one of your better teams ever vs Auburn is closer to the norm of competition in the East than what you've seen so far.
This year, you've flat out played a lame schedule by SEC standards. Without considering UT which would be unfair for a UT fan to do... You will end the season having played SEC D's that rank around 9th on avg... including 4 of the worst 5 D's. The O's you will have faced sans UT will have an avg ranking around 8th. The highest ranked D you will have faced is 5th... UGA... who shut you out. The highest ranked O is TAM... who was playing without their starting QB.
In the end, you will probably play the bottom two teams from the West as your cross division opponents.
Because of the good fortune you seem to have been blessed with over the past couple of years, it is difficult for fans who've been through the fires for years to just "give" you respect. We simply don't think you've earned it.
The whacky thing is that you've probably getting a lame cross division draw next year too with Arkansas and an MSU team that loses practically everyone... and probably their coach. But UT appears to be turning around pretty quickly now. The missing piece on O right now is the OL which should be improved. Kamara and Hurd should give UT a RB duo comparable to anyone in CFB. The D gets all but two in the two deep back. UF could turn on a dime if they get the right coach.
USCe has probably seen their time come and go- especially if Spurrier decides to become a full time golfer.
The long and the short of it is that you will be taken serious by UT fans when you beat a team that we consider the "norm" for UT football. It's coming.