Here are the recruiting regulations for 3 of the 5 branches, to show you that you are incorrect in your first statement.
Army: The Army's Recruiting Regulation, 601-210, paragraph 4-8b: states that* any "applicant who, as a condition for any civil conviction or adverse disposition or any other reason through a civil or criminal court, is ordered or subjected to a sentence that implies or imposes enlistment into the Armed Forces of the United States is not eligible for enlistment."Air Force: The Air Force Recruiting Regulation, AETCI 36-2002, table 1-1, lines 7 and 8, makes an applicant ineligible for enlistment if they are "released from restraint, or civil suit, or charges on the condition of entering military service, if the restraint, civil suit, or criminal charges would be reinstated if the applicant does not enter military service."Marines: The Marine Corps Recruiting Regulation, MCO P1100.72B, Chapter 3, Section 2, Part H, Paragraph 12 states: "Applicants may not enlist as an alternative to criminal prosecution, indictment, incarceration, parole, probation, or another punitive sentence. They are ineligible for enlistment until the original assigned sentence would have been completed."
Secondly the supreme court has ruled several times that juvy records must be revealed for military applicants. While felony conviction can be waived, participating in a forcable rape is not one of those for most branches.
When those convicts are allowed in the military they also require a waiver and is genrally frowned upon. Whereas in sports, Hollywood and music they are generally defended and made irrelevent because of the persons talent.
Also interesting is the narrative of our military forming on this board. First he have a suicidal fan with mental illness and the first assumption is that he is a vet. And now we have recruting officed "flooded" with reject criminals.
I was a Marine Corps recrutier for 3 years. The overwhelming majority of my applicants needed very minor waivers, such as mj use. I had 2 felony waiver (both juveniles at the time) one assualt (fight as school) and one felony theft ( dollar amount was the only factor making it a felony. So of the approx 115 people i put in the marines 2 required those waiver, couple other waivers but those were medical.