I think its only a violation if a coach tells them to meet or does it for them blah blah blah
But if a player goes on his own to contact said recruit, I don't think it is. I'm not even close to sure though
Georgia just self reported a violation because Mathew Stafford got 4 tockets to a falcons game given to him by Jay Cutler! I would assume if this is a violation then what was done in Cali would definately be a problem!