See, this is the wall that I always seem to hit when debating these topics. When I pose these questions, often times a Christian will say "our finite minds simply cannot comprehend who God truly is and the mysteries of his nature or his plan." So basically what I'm hearing is "I can't answer your question."
Granted, I can't answer every question. I said we CAN apprehend. Yes, there are things we cannot comprehend. There are mathmatic and scientific issues that humans cannot yet comprehend. That doesn't mean we cannot apprehend them. And, our inability to grasp something doesn't make it not exist or have purpose. That may frustrate you, but it's the truth and not just in theology.
Also I don't quite understand when you make the distinction between "what WOULD happen and what DOES happen." Are you implying that God truly doesn't know the outcome of everything before it happens or are you saying something else? Sorry, that went a bit over my head, LOL!
No, I'm not implying that at all. Most have never studied Aquinas' five ways, and I'm not saying it's easy material. But his natural theology does address this, and it has yet to be refuted even by the brightest philospohical minds. Edward Feser is a great resource for getting a grip on the subject. What I'm saying is that knowing the outcome is different than the outcome being actualized.
OK I'll grant you that. You're right in that the Bible says nothing about God desiring or needing fellowship with us as the basis for our creation. However would you agree that according to the scriptures God DID create man to fulfill His eternal plan? If so, then that's great for the ones who subscribe to the Christian faith and believe in Jesus. The end result for them is wonderful! However for the billions who don't, for the ones who follow a different path whether it be through a different faith, science, atheism, etc, they are doomed (according to the scriptures)to be cast into the lake of fire to burn forever and ever and ever and ever and ever. I just can't see how His "plan" was ever worth carrying out when you weigh the consequences that so many will suffer. We're talking BILLIONS of souls here Roustabout! I'm sorry but I just don't see how the sins of one lifetime should = an eternal punishment of that severity. In this instance the punishment doesn't fit the crime (so far as my own finite mind can comprehend).
I'm not saying this is an easy reality. Still, whether it's one soul or a billion, that doesn't change anything. I used the analogy earlier. I'm standing on a boat in the ocean and around me are 1,000 people treading water, about to die. I throw you a life preserver. But instead of being pulled to safety, you scream, 'what about these other people?' And you refuse to receive rescue. You'd be a stubborn fool for doing such. Grab the damn life line and come help me fish for some more.
So I guess I interpreted it wrong when God said "Let us make man in our own image."
I don't know. How did you interpret it?
I don't think it's absurd at all. Not when you consider how awful the world is and the impending consequences for those who aren't believers. I absolutely believe that it would have been better if we were never created in the first place!
Sure, you can say that, but it makes no sense. What would be better off? Nothing?
In fact, didn't God say in Genesis 6:6 That "He was sorry for ever creating man and that He was grieved in his heart?" If someone were presented the options of either A.) Never existing in the first place or B.) Spending eternity burning in a lake of fire I think we both know what most would choose. It's VERY logical the way I see it.
Again, that is an absurd option. How can an existing person chose to have never existed to make the choice to not exist in the first place.
The context says, "And God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only
evil continually. 6 And it repented the Lord that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart."
This tells me that we have a God who is actually concerned with our choices and behaviors. And it tells me how wicked we really are.
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I understand that he desired to be God. I don't understand where that kind of desire would come from.
Where do your sinful desires come from? You!! Self.
The angels were celestial beings, closer to God than almost anyone (other than His Son and The Holy Spirit of course). They stood in His presence, experienced his awesomeness, saw first hand his magnificence. Yet despite all that some still chose to rebel. Now if those beings were able to rebel against God, in spite of having first hand knowledge and understanding of who he is, how on Earth can God not expect the same from humans on Earth who haven't been granted such exposure to who He is?
What does God expect of us? Let's just say for a moment that there is no god and this is all just a happy accident. Is there a way you should behave? And, should there be and are there consequences for not behaving in such a way?
That's why I said I don't see how Lucifer could possibly have those desires without God creating him to have those tendencies in the first place.
You are actually phrasing the question differently now. You earlier used the word chose. That means a person or being must have the actual ability to affect an outcome. We are talking about relationship here. Loving my wife is not an emotion, but a choice. There are times that I don't FEEL loving, but I can still CHOOSE to act in a loving way. In failing to do so, I have deprived my wife of what is good and just. I have acted selfishly. Have you ever done anything like this with a parent or spouse? Then why is it so hard to understand why a free being could do the same?
I understand the idea that God did not create angels and humans to be automatons. What I don't understand is why some should be doomed to eternal damnation for simply exercising their free will and choosing a path not related to God's plan, despite the fact they were created to have those tendencies in the first place. If God has a "plan" and part of that plan includes the eternal damnation of billions of souls, it doesn't seem like a very sound plan IMO.
Again, you are assuming in your question that God created angels and humans with evil tendencies. As if we really aren't responsible for doing wrong even when we KNOW we are doing wrong. Really? Do you have children. When they do something wrong, do you just say, "Oh well, they are acting according to their own tendencies." Or, do you attempt to discipline and correct such behavior?