If you are attempting to bait me to say one is worse than the other, it's not going to work. As I've stated before and will state again, what a person does it the privacy of their own home is their own damn business. Which is why I hold no ill will towards the only openly homosexual member of this forum (that I know of) and gladly accept his input on things I'm certainly not qualified to speak to. And to paraphrase what he's said before, being gay does not mean you're going out all porno lust on people around you. I'm sure there are lesbians and gays in the locker rooms. Doesn't bother me a bit as long as they keep it to themselves. Never given it a second thought either.
But again, when a cross dresser goes in with a "sincere" pledge that he is what he claims, I draw the line. Because at that point, there is no way of knowing for certain again if he is just a perv wanting to check out the ladies, a stalker or is legitimately gender confused. You've been around the block enough times to know there are crazy people in this world and know they can and will do most anything. And I certainly wouldn't put it past some people to dress up like a woman just to go in and check out half naked women.
So again I pose the question. Do you have a problem with someone who claims to be gender confused going into the same locker room as your daughters or wife? Because again, you have no way of knowing for certain other than a person's word. Which I think you and I both agree the word of a stranger doesn't go a long way these days.