As I said before, this is where you lose me. Since it seems to be the crux of your explanation, I would like to understand it.
I am then going to focus on answering this question.
I stated that it would be logically impossible for God to create a world where love was real (authentic, of one's own will, reciprocal), and yet could not also be rejected or refused. Keep in mind, we aren't talking about mandatory servitude or worship, we are simply talking about love. As I mentioned, God is not going to force someone to spend eternity with Him.
If God forced us to love him, then it is no longer love. You are no longer you, and the question is moot. I used the analogy of pursuing someone. If you truly love someone (who doesn't share your feelings) you would let them go their own way.
I remember someone setting me up on a blind date in college. We went on the date, nice person, attractive, had a great time, but, I never called the girl back. My friend was upset and asked why didn't you call them for another date, you guys are perfect for each other. I said, "You set me up on a date. I went out of respect for you. You never asked me if I WANTED to be in a relationship."
If you say God COULD do it differently (which you claim), then the burden shifts to you. You are making a claim, substantiate it.
Here is the harsh reality. Just because you don't like a world where God created people He knew would go to Hell, doesn't it make it wrong, or not true. Is it difficult? Yes. Do you think I like the idea of Hell? No. Even if Hell is temporary, I don't like it. But, I am confident in my years of walking with the Lord that He will not arbitrarily send good people to an eternal torment.
If the totality of the bible is true then Jesus Christ is the expression of God's love. Don't like the old testament? Ok. Have a problem with a talking donkey or a fish swallowing a person and spitting him out alive? Whatever. Don't think God should flood the world? fine. But if Jesus Christ rose from the dead, and He did, then God does love and desire that all come to repentance and be saved. If someone is rejecting the resurrection of Christ, they are rejecting love itself. They need to repent (abandon their wrong thinking).