buckfama
Volnation's official hillbilly
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I understand how life can kick you around. I’m in year 13 of caring for one or two parents( I’m the only child) with severe dementia and my Dad passed away in 2017 after being bed bound for 9 years. Getting wound up over the state of Volunteer football is insignificant compared to most things. I tell myself every week to back off from the emotional attachment to Volunteer football but as evidenced by my participation in VN I’m not doing a good job of what you suggested in your post.
I'm sorry to hear about the situation with your folks. I can't imagine how hard that must be.
Don't get me wrong, I love my Vols. But I just can't let someone else's decisions and actions affect my life, especially over something that is nothing more than entertainment.
I've got one business and in the process of starting another. There is plenty in my life to worry about without adding to it.
And I understand about the emotional connection. I've been a fan for nearly 40 years. I've seen the highs and lows and It's hard to keep that detachment sometimes. But I try to keep it in perspective. I've had a girlfriend that became an opioid addict, divorce, deaths, I've been to war, I've cut people out of car wrecks, put out house fires, had a. 18 month old baby die in my hands. Football pales in comparison to any of that. If I can't find happiness in Tennessee football, then I'll find it somewhere else.
But I refuse to let it control my mood or ruin my day.
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