Not much to spill, he responded late last night, by saying its too bad I'm not closer, I'm a great catch, fun, yadda yadda yadda, but he had a long distance relationship in college that he didn't like, so distance is too big of a deal for him at this point. :sad: But I did respond to him saying basically if he was being completely honest with me and that distance was the only problem, then reconsider because I am not the same girl he dated in college, it all comes down to communication and each person giving their fullest. I also made it clear that I'm not looking to jump into a relationship by any means, lets just get to know one another and see if we are compatable away from the group setting, if we aren't, well then no need to worry about the distance, I will look him up the next time tenn plays in gainsville or even a bowl game somewhere in FLA, and if it does seem like we are compatable, then we can talk about the distance and any other delimmas at that point. Now I'll wait to see how he responds, probably still the same, but I didn't want to give up so easily if it is just distance we are talking about! :birgits_giggle: