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Serious Question: how would y’all handle a situation where you know you ex isn’t going to be able to afford any Christmas presents for your adult aged children, but you also don’t want them to wake up on Christmas morning without anything? (They are both in college, but still live in the “family” home, where I still pay all the bills, while I live in a one bedroom apartment in the city. 🤷🏻‍♀️… I know… I’m complicated) Divorces and Holidays… 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️
 
Serious Question: how would y’all handle a situation where you know you ex isn’t going to be able to afford any Christmas presents for your adult aged children, but you also don’t want them to wake up on Christmas morning without anything? (They are both in college, but still live in the “family” home, where I still pay all the bills, while I live in a one bedroom apartment in the city. 🤷🏻‍♀️… I know… I’m complicated) Divorces and Holidays… 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

Buy your kids something and screw the ex.

And they are adults now so they shouldn't be too disappointed Santa didn't visit.
 
Get them whatever you can afford. Don't go into (or deeper into) debt for a present. Christmas isn't about the gifts. It's about being Thankful you arent a Longhorn fan.

Does he have a legitimate reason why he can't afford anything?
Not that legitimate…I have been his cash cow for 20 years, because he’s only worked part time minimum wage jobs since leaving the Army…. 🤷🏻‍♀️…. One of the main reasons I left…
 
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Serious Question: how would y’all handle a situation where you know you ex isn’t going to be able to afford any Christmas presents for your adult aged children, but you also don’t want them to wake up on Christmas morning without anything? (They are both in college, but still live in the “family” home, where I still pay all the bills, while I live in a one bedroom apartment in the city. 🤷🏻‍♀️… I know… I’m complicated) Divorces and Holidays… 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️
They’re adults. And they’re aware of the situation. If he has some sort of relationship with them, they can enjoy a non-gifting Christmas.

Ain’t nobody over the age of 18 gonna die from not unwrapping (or depositing) presents.
 
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