Only to football guys. Sexual assault has been a serious problem on college campuses for many years--and is mostly definitely a problem with athletes--and has for many years been swept under the rug as universities and athletic departments, including some prestigious ones, use various means to keep cases quiet or subtly dissuade victims from pursuing charges. Look at the J. Winston case at FSU--the police basically failed to pursue the case.
Person goes to a bar, picks up a woman, goes home with her and they have consensual sex. Women accuses man of rape, presses charges or files a civil suit. Man's name is drug through the mud. He loses his job, his friends, families and community thinks he is a rapist. His life gets wrecked. Shouldn't there be recourse and compensation for him when he is found not guilty?
The fact that you're using air quotes around alleged simply demonstrates to me how essential it is these women remain unidentified. Anytime ANYONE claims sexual abuse, they should be treated carefully.
Why?
Because RAPE IS A CRIME. A PSYCHOLOGICAL DEVASTATOR. A SOCIAL STIGMA. And because only too many people quite obviously are only too happy to ASSUME these women are lying because it would be inconvenient for them to be telling THE TRUTH.
Thank you for proving my point so perfectly. I hope no woman in your life is ever in this situation, so she would have to endure what you are so willing to condemn women to do.
Have a nice day.
Absolutely. If the accuser lied, she should be charged/convicted of perjury, and held liable for civil damages.
The fact that you're using air quotes around alleged simply demonstrates to me how essential it is these women remain unidentified. Anytime ANYONE claims sexual abuse, they should be treated carefully.
Why?
Because RAPE IS A CRIME. A PSYCHOLOGICAL DEVASTATOR. A SOCIAL STIGMA. And because only too many people quite obviously are only too happy to ASSUME these women are lying because it would be inconvenient for them to be telling THE TRUTH.
Thank you for proving my point so perfectly. I hope no woman in your life is ever in this situation, so she would have to endure what you are so willing to condemn women to do.
Have a nice day.
RAPE IS A CRIME. A PSYCHOLOGICAL DEVASTATOR. A SOCIAL STIGMA. And because only too many people quite obviously are only too happy to ASSUME these women are lying because it would be inconvenient for them to be telling THE TRUTH.
So you don't believe in equality? You believe women should have more rights then men.
I get what you're saying, I honestly do, but the world we live in now is not the world of the past. Like I said previously, if this were an actual criminal case, I would understand protection through anonymity, but I believe the accused should be protected by that same anonymity until guilt or innocence is established. Sometimes it turns out the accused IS the victim. But this isn't a criminal case. This is a civil case seeking monetary recompense based on perceived actions of the University of TN. It's not a rape trial.
Yes, rape is a devastating crime. I agree with you on that 100%. Being falsely accused of rape is also a devastating crime that can emotionally cripple a man just as much as rape can emotionally cripple a woman. And yes there are people willing to ASSUME the women are lying, but there are also people willing to ASSUME they are telling the truth. And it's not as simple as saying if you can prove beyond a shadow of a doubt they are lying, then they should be fair game. Proving someone is lying is not easy. Most rape cases that don't make it to trial are dismissed because of lack of evidence to support the accuser's charges. That doesn't mean she's lying, it only means they can't prove she's not. There is no beyond a shadow of a doubt.
The fact that you're using air quotes around alleged simply demonstrates to me how essential it is these women remain unidentified. Anytime ANYONE claims sexual abuse, they should be treated carefully.
Why?
Because RAPE IS A CRIME. A PSYCHOLOGICAL DEVASTATOR. A SOCIAL STIGMA. And because only too many people quite obviously are only too happy to ASSUME these women are lying because it would be inconvenient for them to be telling THE TRUTH.
Thank you for proving my point so perfectly. I hope no woman in your life is ever in this situation, so she would have to endure what you are so willing to condemn women to do.
Have a nice day.
I bet there have been far more women raped and didn't come forward than there are men who have been falsly accused. It's a problem in our culture and to pretend like its not is absurd.
It really would mean something to me if it was literally ANY other source breaking this than Anita. She has an agenda that's very clear. I have read enough of her material to know that she has omitted details and told half truths. She wrote her narrative here long ago.
He used alleged because that is exactly the correct term. Nothing has been proven,only allegations from these women. Let's be clear, they have a case then bring criminal charges. Saying they were victims don't make it so. Just ask Rolling Stone and the University of Va. that sometimes is not the case. This case is a non startery but will be settled because it's cheaper. Your views are decidedly one sided. These woman chose to sign on to the lawsuit let them come forward, not hide behind the lawsuit.
Again, BS. I'm assuming nothing. You seem perfectly content to dismiss the impact these allegations have on these young men and their families. You also seem to ignore the FACT that false allegations are made. If these women want to bring charges, that's perfectly fine and their right. You state
Not one word in your reply considers the possibility that the accused are INNOCENT. Your stance is completely one sided. Women want equality so embrace it. If one side is identified, the other should be as well. You can't and shouldn't have it both ways.
But you cannot operate from the assumption the two situations are the same. The paramount concern in these cases must be the welfare and justice for a VICTIM of a predatory sexual assault. Has to be. Otherwise the entire system of justice is undermined from the get go. Far better to protect the few false claimants than to destroy a single true victim.
I believe an accuser of this sort of crime should be anonymous unless claims are found to be false. Then the accuser should be fair game and subject to a countersuit for defamation of character in cases of civil suits.
Yes, rape is a devastating crime. I agree with you on that 100%. Being falsely accused of rape is also a devastating crime that can emotionally cripple a man just as much as rape can emotionally cripple a woman. And yes there are people willing to ASSUME the women are lying, but there are also people willing to ASSUME they are telling the truth. And it's not as simple as saying if you can prove beyond a shadow of a doubt they are lying, then they should be fair game. Proving someone is lying is not easy. Most rape cases that don't make it to trial are dismissed because of lack of evidence to support the accuser's charges. That doesn't mean she's lying, it only means they can't prove she's not. There is no beyond a shadow of a doubt.