The only bold assertions I have ever made are not my own...they come from the Bible. God's words. Not mine. If they rub you the wrong way, which it is very obvious they do, take it up with Him. Not me. I could not care any less what you do with your life. I don't know you. I would like for all people to come to Jesus, but I will never try to make anyone.
As far as accusations, that is a lie. I have never accused anyone on this board of anything. Their sin is just that, their sin. I am quick to point out that I have sin of my own. I work to better myself and often fail. No mystery in that. You may know hypocritical Christians who point fingers at you and live like the devil while pretending to be righteous, but it ain't me brother. I am about as righteous as the gutter He found me in. I have a lot of flaws, and no problem owning them, but a self righteous attitude ain't one of them.
The problem that a lot of people have is they want to pretend that the way they live is ok. It is ok...with them. Many times, it's not OK with God. So they get all bent out of shape when somebody calls sin for what it is...sin. They get defensive and belligerent and attack mode is their immediate reaction. The bible says to call sin what it is. Sin. Hate the sin but love the sinner. You can live however you want, that's your business. I don't care what you do.. it doesn't effect me or mine. You shouldn't get all bent out of shape though and start insulting people when they point out that a God you don't believe in wrote a book that you don't believe is true that says that many of the things in your life are wrong...and that if you don't seek a personal relationship with the God who made you then you are going to burn eternally in a Hell you don't believe exists. I don't think it would upset me for someone to tell me that the spaghetti monster thinks I shouldn't drink mountain dew and that if I don't repent I will spend eternity in Narnia.
Those things don't exist to me. So that could never upset me. So how is it exactly that you will absolutely get your panties in a wad over the exact same thing happening to you? Let it upset you so much that in your anger you will insult people that you don't know? If you believe that I am stupid and all of my beliefs are foolish fairy tales then why would you get bent out of shape if my spaghetti monster said you are going to hell? Either you are allowing unimportant things to get the best of you, or you are not nearly as certain as you portray that my God isn't real, and that the sin in your life and in other people's is not indeed wrong?