Here's you guts a quick weird story. One of my wife's friends dad is about to pass away. She went to be there for them, just a couple of miles from us. She texted me earlier saying the friend and her mom were sitting around talking about how they wished he'd go ahead and pass. Not because of suffering, they're tired of dealing with him, he's getting on their nerves, etc. I get it can be frustrating, but then they both turn around on Facebook and post "please pray I can't live without my husband/daddy. I get emotions change in situations, but to say that in front of people, then post the opposite, just weird imo.
