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#51
#51
I'm truly sorry for your loss. I'm not a religious man, but your note really made me sad. I can't even imagine what I would do after losing a child. Good luck to you and your family!
 
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#54
#54
DonDiego said:
I know its a crazy time to be posting, but I was arguing with some people on here Saturday afternoon after doing some yard work--just for a little fun. A few minutes later a state trooper pulled up in front of my house. They came inside to let me know my son had been killed in a car accident across town. I've not slept much since then. He was the light of my life and I'm not sure why I'm even posting this, except I remember others on here I helped out--a very little--when it was needed. I don't need help. I don't think I even need prayers. I prayed for his life and safety almost every day for years, so I'll skip the prayers. It is just unnatural to outlive a young, vital, beautiful, engaging young guy. As a parent, you know you should always go first. I'm pissed right now, but I'll say. Hold the ones you love closely. Let them know how much you love them.
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I'm sorry. I don't know what you are going through. I have always had fear of losing a loved one but I've been lucky so far. I'm so sorry. If you need a friend or anything my email is johnsonluke833@gmail.com, it's Kinda a silly thing to offer. But it's there for what it's worth
 
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DonDiego said:
I know its a crazy time to be posting, but I was arguing with some people on here Saturday afternoon after doing some yard work--just for a little fun. A few minutes later a state trooper pulled up in front of my house. They came inside to let me know my son had been killed in a car accident across town. I've not slept much since then. He was the light of my life and I'm not sure why I'm even posting this, except I remember others on here I helped out--a very little--when it was needed. I don't need help. I don't think I even need prayers. I prayed for his life and safety almost every day for years, so I'll skip the prayers. It is just unnatural to outlive a young, vital, beautiful, engaging young guy. As a parent, you know you should always go first. I'm pissed right now, but I'll say. Hold the ones you love closely. Let them know how much you love them.
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Psalm 46:1, "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble." I know this to be a truthful fact. Mourn your son but allow God to give you strength and peace. We all love you and your family!!!!
 
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I am so sorry to hear this . My lifelong childhood friend lost his son at the age of 16 on this day June 8th 3 years ago on a boy scout hike in Texas. Have witnessed first hand life consuming crippling grief. I write this to you to let you know will be praying and asking that The Lord Jesus will provide His exact shade of needed Grace, Strength and Peace to you and family. Will also pray that the waves of grief will become smaller and less frequent in seasons to come.
 
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God bless you your family and your sons friends.

My girlfriend and my two cats were in an accident last Tuesday. Car totaled, I messed up my chest and she has a broken collarbone. Cats are okay. It sure has given us some perspective and reading your monologue there really hits home for me. We should really count our blessings because it certainly could have been worse for us.

Peace and love my friend.
 
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DonDiego said:
I know its a crazy time to be posting, but I was arguing with some people on here Saturday afternoon after doing some yard work--just for a little fun. A few minutes later a state trooper pulled up in front of my house. They came inside to let me know my son had been killed in a car accident across town. I've not slept much since then. He was the light of my life and I'm not sure why I'm even posting this, except I remember others on here I helped out--a very little--when it was needed. I don't need help. I don't think I even need prayers. I prayed for his life and safety almost every day for years, so I'll skip the prayers. It is just unnatural to outlive a young, vital, beautiful, engaging young guy. As a parent, you know you should always go first. I'm pissed right now, but I'll say. Hold the ones you love closely. Let them know how much you love them.
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So sorry to hear this brother. I can't even imagine the pain you're going through. If you ever need to talk just ms me and I'll send my number. You are not alone brother. Volnation is a family and we got your back.
 
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DonDiego said:
I know its a crazy time to be posting, but I was arguing with some people on here Saturday afternoon after doing some yard work--just for a little fun. A few minutes later a state trooper pulled up in front of my house. They came inside to let me know my son had been killed in a car accident across town. I've not slept much since then. He was the light of my life and I'm not sure why I'm even posting this, except I remember others on here I helped out--a very little--when it was needed. I don't need help. I don't think I even need prayers. I prayed for his life and safety almost every day for years, so I'll skip the prayers. It is just unnatural to outlive a young, vital, beautiful, engaging young guy. As a parent, you know you should always go first. I'm pissed right now, but I'll say. Hold the ones you love closely. Let them know how much you love them.
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I’m so sorry for your loss. I think I may have been one of those you were arguing with and this certainly puts those petty arguments into perspective. I am praying for peace and comfort for you and your family during these difficult times. God bless you.
 
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All of vol nation are deeply saddened by the loss of your son. No one can fathom the crushing pressure on your heart and soul right now.All we can give is our hearts and hopes for your families comfort and peace.They say time heals all,I'm not so sure.Maybe the pain lessens withtime,memories never.May your soul find a salve to comfort you.
 
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