I’ve seen enough of this act.
I’ll tell you a corporate story that we all probably know by now.
If I utter some sexual innuendo to a female at work, and she isn’t bothered, but another coworker hears it and is offended, I can be brought up on sexual harassment charges, even though I made no innuendos to the complaining party.
Likewise for veiled or direct physical threats. So what if Joe Bob doesn’t believe I’ll whip his ass in the parking lot, and isn’t bothered in the least. If Cletus reports it, I’m in the unemployment line, even though I wasn’t even addressing him.