I think you mean Greysondawg not Secking. I don't mind any of them. When I post on their boards, I make it a point to be "respectful."
I personally dislike posts that attack another's character and become personal, like the second paragraph. I like posters that are "respectful" like whom you mentioned in the first paragraph. I also like Hank and think regardless of who tells him to "STFU" he is "respectful" and deserves respect back. If that can't be done, perhaps the "respectful" thing to do is utilize the ignore feature.