jakez4ut
Patience... It's what's for dinner
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i got boondoggled in to it......we were in Pittsburgh, and we went shopping......i wasn't aware of where we were shopping........that was one of the worst days of my life.......and it ended as badly as you can probably imagine.
and the worst part was.......i was in frickin' pittsburgh at my future in laws house.......it wasn't like i could just leave and remove myself from the situation.......twas a bad, bad day.
dont' worry, so is she........you better deliver brother! it'll be a day she speaks of for the rest of her life, and it better be a good memory.........:thumbsup:
Tell her to pick it out. Then pay for it. Too easy. Skimp on the wedding. it's basically a dinner nobody wants to go to, and they are only going because they can get drunk for free.
If you have a jeweler connection (did you say cousin?), I'd make every effort to put that to use. The markup on diamonds (especially high-quality) is ASTRONOMICAL. I used a long-time family friend when shopping and saved about 40-50%. Certification is a way of "guaranteeing" your stone and could be valuable if you were to ever trade-up or sell.
As for the wedding/reception talk. . . .unless you're made of money, I think there is a lot of sense in the points made above. Have a modest wedding and reception, give people a chance to wish you well, then blow the big bucks on a real nice honeymoon that you'll never forget! (Think Hawaii. . . .)
