I don't want to be doing any of this stuff and I have serious doubts as to whether much of it is necessary. If we're going to do it, then everyone needs to participate or the sacrifice the unselfish people are making is wasted. FWIW, where I live people use Uber or a car service if they're partying and if they don't then they risk going to jail, being fined, having their license suspended, paying more for insurance, and (perhaps worst of all for some) having their name out there attached to a crime. The one thing that will stop most of the people I call neighbors in their tracks is public shaming. We need an online "stay at home order violators" registry just like they have for sex offenders.