I think great coaches, elite winners, are not the type of people to shy away from a challenge. I hope the powers to be at UT understand this and dare to be so bold and pursue the Bob Stoops and Chris Petersens of the world.
The most beautiful girl in school never got asked out. Guys too afraid to approach. When she ended up with me, people were like, "how?" How did that guy get that girl???!!!
We have got to be bold and daring. Don't ever settle again. I don't care how much money, time or effort. Court this person like life depends on it. Buy him flowers, send him chocolate, pursue him like there is no other. Then, when he says no, just remember that's a temporary no and start again tomorrow. Don't stop until we get a restraining order. Lol.