As a threshold matter we should understand, and on some level celebrate, that the U.S. is safer than it has been since the justice department began keeping statistics, both for violent crimes and sex crimes*. (For a chart showing the trends of the cases of rape as compiled by the Bureau of Justice statistics, see [3).
As even one rape is too much, how about we look at comprehensive rape education instead of this battle of the sexes that we have now?
I have read here, and elsewhere, that we need to teach men not to rape.
I have read here, and elsewhere, that we need to not blame the victim.
I like both of those points. I also find huge flaws in both mentalities.
First, men can be (and are) victims of rape and sex crimes, too[6]. Teaching a man that he shouldn't rape does nothing to help the man who was raped/assaulted by a female (think female teacher/ male student and how that is handled compared to what is being discussed here [1]). Beyond that, most men (believe it or not) are already NOT rapists. Shaming young men into a real belief that we are all potential rapists, and should be acutely aware of where our penis is at all times lest we lose control of it, isn't going to drive the conversation much farther than it already is. Nor will it likely move the needle on actual sex crime prevention.
Second, the idea of never placing any blame or responsibility on the
potential victim is also a very flawed view (differentiated
potential from
actual victim). How can it be helpful to basically communicate to all women that there is nothing they can do to avoid being raped, besides convincing men not to rape them? That, it seems to me, removes the empowerment and equality that most of us (men and women) want and deserve. Most of us know that there are ways to make ourselves safer and healthier in all other parts of our life, but for some reason it seems that sex requires a view of the sexes as either dominant predator or helpless prey.
Therefore it seems that we need to remove the labels and stigmatization from the conversation. Women aren't victims and men aren't rapists. People should be empowered to know that there are actually things you can do to reduce your profile as a potential victim. And others need to know that there are ways to avoid becoming the defendant. We don't seem to want to talk about those, for fear that it might be victim shaming. It isn't. It is true that there are things we have no control over, and it is true that there are things we can do to greatly increase the risk to ourselves[2]. For instance, not smoking isn't a guarantee that one will never get cancer, and smoking isn't a guarantee that one will get cancer. Quitting smoking does lower a risk for certain cancers. People then can actively participate in lowering a risk for certain cancers by their own behavior. These crimes are similar in that aspect, being raped/assaulted can
sometimes be prevented and we shouldn't ignore that. The current system, as many here argue for and against, does appear to have a flaw that is false rape reports at a level potentially higher than other crimes [6]. That isn't good either, and if true, means there is a cultural phenomenon that should be addressed there as well.
That being said, there are some interesting (troubling) trends regarding college athletes and sex crimes. As I quoted in another thread, it should be noted that college athletes make up 3% of the male population on campuses and make up roughly 20% of the perpetrators of sex crimes. Athletes are also more likely to be named and indicted in sex crimes cases but also less likely to be convicted [4]. Interesting stuff.
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1. Example:
The big list: Female teachers with students
2. "Conclusions: The high proportion of rapes found to occur when women were intoxicated indicates the need for alcohol prevention programs on campuses that address sexual assault, both to educate men about what constitutes rape and to advise women of risky situations. The findings that some campus environments are associated with higher levels of both drinking and rape will help target rape prevention programs at colleges. - See more at: http://journalistsresource.org/studies/society/public-health/sexual-assault-rape-us-college-campuses-research-roundup#sthash.SVKQ6Fwa.dpuf"
3.
Statistics Show Drop In U.S. Rape Cases
4.
http://www.volnation.com/forum/tenn...ear-johnson-williams-case-5.html#post11203400
5.
How Many Rape Reports Are False? - Bloomberg View
6.
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/01/24/h...e-for-rape-awareness.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
---further reading---
http://www.amazon.com/Rush-Injustice-Prejudice-Correctness-Overshadowed/dp/1595551182
A Rape on Campus: A Brutal Assault and Struggle for Justice at UVA | Rolling Stone
Amazon.com: The System: The Glory and Scandal of Big-Time College Football (9780385536615): Jeff Benedict, Armen Keteyian: Books
Columbia Student: I Didn
*I understand that some people do not like the distinction of rape as something else than a violent crime, I am simply trying to illustrate that things like shootings have been dropping, so too have rapes/sex crimes.