Agree there is a double standard. Women enjoy it when that standard puts them on the pedestal but don't want the responsibility that comes with it.
I've now read the story and it appears the classic "he said, she said". Unfortunately for the girl and the hanging mob here the only witnesses appeared to say she didn't appear drunk when they left and she did go to his room. Now, you're going to ruin this guys life, regardless if he's a HEISMAN winner or a flute player, based on her testimony over two other witnesses? Where were her friends?
I think I know why she didn't want an investigation. That would involve phone records, reports, video surveillance, more witnesses, etc. It's strange that all they want is him off the team? Will that make her happy, healthy? Sounds like someone with regret that others know about her.
This isn't a Vandy thing as bad as the Tennessean wants it to be. This girl appeared to be able to walk in his room willingly. Does that legitimize rape? No but it makes it a lot more difficult to prove especially waiting two days to report. It sure doesn't merit prosecution for rape either.