RikidyBones
Formerly utvols88
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you need to just be quiet until more info comes out because you are having trouble handling the scenarios people are discussing, while you appear to already have them convicted of "rape" because you have posted the word a dozen times. I don't know about anybody else, but I don't like posting that word and wonder why the hell someone would post it so often.
Ugh. Another amazing generalization about all women, and another post spending more time worrying about the affects on the possible rapist than on the impacts on the life of the person who might have been raped. This thread needs to be nuked.
Come on, Mods. This is getting ridiculous again.
And people wonder why the moderator shut the 1st Thread down ????
Having a opinion on something is 1 thing. Just ranting and trying to be cute on a serious issue is crazy.
Let's wait till we know all the details and then most of us can have a serious debate.
GBO :rock:
No, that's not what is happening. There is a massive difference in convincing someone of rape on the one hand, and saying that victim blaming and generalizations about all women are insane on the other.
I have no clue what AJ did or didn't do. I am, however, firmly committed to the belief that we should not say that "if it happened, they are partly at fault because they should have known better" or "the one girl went home, and every single woman is obsessively attached to her friends and would never do this, so they must be lying" or "women are vindictive" or "women seek out athletes for sex and money".
I hope you can see this difference.
Come on, Mods. This is getting ridiculous again.
And people wonder why the moderator shut the 1st Thread down ????
Having a opinion on something is 1 thing. Just ranting and trying to be cute on a serious issue is crazy.
Let's wait till we know all the details and then most of us can have a serious debate.
GBO :rock:
If the men are guilty, there won't be a debate.
It seems like nobody is bringing up the scenario that maybe she didn't witness the rape. Maybe they were both together at first and she bailed. Which may be another reason she went home.
That would leave two guys and 1 girl. More than likely under the influence of something. Even if she was consensual with one guy, is it still rape when they both force themselves on her? I say yes.
Im not saying that's what happened but seems like a lot of you find it impossible to believe AJ could do this.
Don't rush to any judgement or try and talk yourself into believing a particular motive. One way or the another.
You're very welcome.
As I mentioned in a previous post...IF these girls were taken against their will...IOW...they said NO/STOP....then throw the book at these young men. As football players of a D1 school, I just can't see them having to force themselves on a female to get laid.
Speaking as a female....I KNOW how vindictive girls/women can be. I can see them being 'star struck' by any attention these guys paid them. I can also see them crying 'foul' once they realized they were just the flavor of the day.
RAPE is a serious accusation....and even if there wasn't one here....the damage is already been done to these young men.
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Ugh. Another amazing generalization about all women, and another post spending more time worrying about the affects on the possible rapist than on the impacts on the life of the person who might have been raped. This thread needs to be nuked.
True, there are always two sides to this though. We don't know if the woman has falsely reported this. Maybe she got mad at the players and decided to report this. But we dont know. We have no idea what happened. It could have happened. I hope it didn't.
What about the theory that she had a relationship on the side with him and he didn't want to leave his real girlfriend for her and she has brought up these allegations against him. If they have had sex many times before this encounter then they have a pattern of consensual sex. In my opinion it would be hard to prove rape. Just curious if she had injuries to prove she was forced ie: bruising of wrist or hands from being held against her will, or any type of injury normally seen with rape victims?
I seem to recall this was one of the early speculations going around about the Jameis Winston deal too.