If you have read his posts, he has lived there and has siblings still in high school there. I can't disagree with him that a lot of the criticisms come from people who have never lived there. There is an East TN bias, and I know this because I went to school at UT and heard it.
I will say this again. The suburban living is about as good as it gets. The schools are top in the state, and the crime is minimal. As I said before, you don't have to be wealthy either as the standard of living is cheap compared to the west, NE, and Florida. I am sorry for your experience, but I have lived here since 1984 (except at UT) and not had anything serious happen to me. I actually am a criminal defense attorney and see it all. But it is no different than any other big city, and you just have to know where to stay away from. Sorry but people just exaggerate the negatives.
My mother in law was the Germantown Police Chief's executive secretary for many years before retiring a few years ago. I also know many people from Cordova and I myself lived in Bartlett for 2 years. They stories of crime she and they have told over the years are very similar to the ones I experienced while living in Midtown.
I'll add one more. Buddy of mine from Jackson drove to the Courtyard Marriott on Germantown Pkwy one early evening in preparation for a district meeting the following morning. He was getting his stuff out of his trunk to go and check in when a car full of young punks pulled up with a couple of them yelling at another to "shoot him man, shoot him".....guy turned around, offered them his wallet, computer, car keys, etc, but they just ignored him. He begged them not to shoot him, saying he had young kids, but they ignored him. When he realized they were gonna shoot, turned and ran.....bullet entered his right buttock, exited his right groin area, narrowly missing his femoral artery.
Glad you're able to live safely and peacefully in a suburb of Memphis. We ourselves at one point though we might move out to Collierville but eventually just decided to get out altogether. I used to love Shelby Farms and loved running around Midtown in general. Just came too close up to the crime that annually puts Memphis in the top 5 nationally. You've been fortunate. I'm betting those who say the crime is exaggerated would change their opinion if they came face to face with it like many people have who've chosen to no longer live there. Anyway, back to Richmond.
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