Thanks peeps. Solid advice from your Grandpa Slice. I think I posted about my wife's dad before but it's progressed quickly.
He told us he got diagnosed with a super rare condition early this year. He had signs of it going back a couple years though. To the point that on our last visit I was asking the step mom and anyone that would listen wth was up with him.
The condition gives you 7 years max, you lose speech and the ability to walk by year 5-6 sometimes earlier. He's almost incomprehensible at this point. Been telling my wife to drop everything and go see him for several months. She had planned it but they've cancelled on her twice.
She got a call from her step mom today that she should come and that it's getting bad quick. They're an odd family, no one communicates and her parents have always been known to hide stuff. Who knows how long he's had it but at this point he may only have 6 months of being able to get around on his own. Maybe a year. There is no slowing it down and there are no miracle cases of people kicking it. Just kind of is what it is at this point, a death sentence.
Anyway just good reminder to k.i.s.s., enjoy life, enjoy your family, and don't sweat the small ****.