TNVolGirl
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Now you've hit on one of my favorite subjects.
When a dog is in an excited state, you, as the alpha, need to remain calm and confident, first of all. You can allow the dog to do what you want the dog to do, but you must require the dog not do what you don't want to allow, and you can accomplish this without having to cause the dog any pain.
I would practice going to the car with the dog on a leash, stop at the car door, make the dog sit, open the car door, keep the dog out of the car until he displays a calm and submissive state, then invite the dog to enter the car. Practice, practice, practice. The dog will get it. If you let him get in the car while he's still excited, you will be positively reinforcing that excited state. You might even walk the dog first and make sure he is exercised, before attempting the car exercise. That way, his excess energy will be spent and he will be more submissive and pay more attention. When you walk the dog, don't let the dog lead you, you are the pack leader. Hold the leash to your side, only allowing the dog as little slack as necessary for him to walk beside you, not ahead of you, and you need to walk with your head up, chest out, focused ahead, as if you expect the dog to follow your lead and your confidence. Dogs understand what that means and it may take practice, but that's one of the first steps we take in making sure a dog understands their position and ours in a pack.
Remember, if you watch a pack closely, you will notice that, first of all, the alpha dog is ALWAYS calm and confident. I would recommend you watch The Dog Whisperer if you are able to. In my opinion, Cesar is terrible at actually explaining or verbalizing what he is doing, but watch closely how he does it and what he does. He really does understand the silent body language type communication that dogs have. I have learned a lot from watching him.
I think what is meant is that dogs are different than humans, they have a different way of acting and communicating, different ways of behavior. The first tendency of many people is to treat the dog like a little child. They speak to the dog in a high pitched, child-like voice, which puts the dog in a highly excited state. Once the dog gets into an excited state, it's a lot harder to teach them anything. Puppies naturally learn by watching their mother, and while they are watching, they are calm and focused on what she is doing. The mother is in general ignoring them and focusing on what she is doing, whether is burrowing for a critter, or whatever.
Another example of the difference, when dogs get in each other's faces, that is often a sign of aggression. When people do it, it's to kiss or show affection. How many times have we seen somebody come up to a cute dog they don't know well, and try to kiss the dog on the head, only to get bitten. They showed aggression to the dog and the dog responded in kind.
When people smile, they show their teeth. When dogs in a pack show their teeth, there's about to be a fight.
I could go on and on...
Thank you for your responses. Obviously you know a lot about pack mentality, what with 5 dogs all living together. :good!:
I agree that Cesar has a certain way with dogs. The few times I've watched the show, I've been impressed with how dogs respond to him. It's almost like his aura calms them.
It's interesting for me to see how Colby has adjusted now that Peyton came along. He was so hesitant and leery of him at first, but now he would be heartbroken without his buddy. They are so sweet.


