I haz the sadness. Celebrating with eldest daughter who decided they are not having the traditional meal. She requested I bring smoked meat, but then insisted it not be pork. Wut? Fine, so roasting a beef tenderloin in the smoker, reverse searing on a Blackstone. Should be tasty...but...bringing the beef to serve with...lasagna?!? I can't even wrap my head around this.
In fairness this may be my fault. Many years ago we rebelled against the traditional Christmas Eve meal (primarily because of Thanksgiving overload) and started doing Spanish food. It's fun. Feliz Navidad and what not. But no real Thanksgiving meal?!? Is that even legal?