Thank you. I check things out here every few days depending on how things are going. We now have our house (Chattanooga), my house, and her house both in middle TN-about 30 miles apart. We've moved to my house because it was impossible to manage everything from Chattanooga. It's quieter here, and at least to me things are more sane. Doesn't mean I'm getting things done as effectively as I want - and definitely not as quickly as the wife wants, but that's just how it is. I've been moving a few things over every trip back to Chattanooga for appointments - necessities mostly; the real moving will come later when her house is renovated the way we want and need, and that's one of the things not moving quickly because I haven't arranged for someone to do the work. I have a contractor name, so we'll see how that goes.
My house was built in 1918 - in case of doubt it is older than me. We're in a very small town in the middle of nursery country, so mostly pretty quiet with a few semis passing through or on the bypass moving nursery stock. The wife is getting around much better right now and getting more physical therapy. She does some limited cooking, but you have to keep an eye on her and the recipe or things can get unusual. The move went pretty well; I brought her and one cat over and stayed to get everything somewhat settled. I figured the cat would be the big issue - not at all - she was racing up and down the hall having a ball in no time. Went back about a weak later and moved the other two cats over expecting the worst, and they are perfectly content. You hear a lot of "hoofbeats" up and down the hall at all hours. This is temporary until the other house is set up.
Her house is between Tullahoma and Shelbyville. It's not a great house, but has plenty of room for improvement. It's not as isolated as I'd like - one of two houses on a cul-de-sac at with maybe 8 houses on the entire street - pretty much surrounded by farmland. The real attraction is the backyard. It fans out with a large creek at the end (actually some property across the creek, too); but the backyard is partially wooded and over 2 acres, and you can't see the neighbors looking out the back of the house. My brother in law walked down to the creek with me a few weeks ago and said he could spend hours there - and I agree. So one improvement will be a large windowed deck for us and the cats. I thought about just selling all three houses and building something that really fit our situation assuming the wife doesn't significantly improve mobility wise and cognitively, but then in a more lucid moment she pointed out we probably wouldn't be living there more than another ten years, so that didn't make sense - mostly do something with the original garage (converted into a huge room) to improve the house layout. That means raising the floor - moving the washer and dryer out there to make a pantry off the kitchen and extending the master bedroom bath out there so you can just wheel a transport chair into the shower. I showed my brother what I had in mind and mentioned what she said about ten years and he had to add "Yeah, you'll be pushing 90 by then." I thanked him for the reminder - he's only two years younger than me BTW.
Anyway, I do look in and read to keep up what's happening with you heathens - and see which one of you is least likely to go on living. Kinda betting on McDad and ND40 right now. My wife didn't get her hormones refilled, so until they started kicking in again late yesterday ... I'll keep checking in, we're doing OK, and I'm resisting the temptation to spend more time here because there's more to do than I seem to be getting done. This being Bama weekend, I'm taking a break. I'm not expecting a win, but then you just never know. With a defense that could actually tackle and knock down passes, the odds would be a lot more favorable. I'm not counting on the officials to be neutral either - Bama will probably play their most miraculous and penalty free game of the year.