No, crappy day at work last evening. Everything fell apart in the last hour. But anyway...
I'll try to answer as best as possible on mobile. The point that I'm making, and one I'm really surprised you don't agree with, it's there's a LOT of blame and nobody can or should put all the onus on Putin. Yeah, he did the deed himself, but anyone who tries to argue against the fact there were a LOT of provocative moves by the US, EU and NATO is not looking so enough into the situation.
Who benefits from a war in Ukraine with Russia as an aggressor? Furthermore, this is history repeating itself in regards to NATO expansion. Remember Georgia in the early 2000s when they started making similar moves towards NATO membership? And what happened?
They got invaded. Seems like a common occurrence here, no? Every time NATO starts talking about expanding, we get these conflicts that pop up. But looking at this through a neutral stance, why does NATO need to expand that far forward anyway? I seem to recall a picture you posted some years ago with something to the effect of how many military bases we had surrounding Iran. "How dare they put their country in the middle of our overseas bases". The same applies to Russia. How dare they put their country right on the border of NATO members!
Russia isn't anywhere near the threat they were in in the 80s and earlier. Yet, they keep getting provoked by the western powers for some reason. And the question you have to ask is "who benefits from continual conflict with Russia?" Who pushed for lethal weapons sales? Who gave hundreds of billions of dollars with little too no accountability? Who helped destroy they weapons stockpiles to begin with hoping we (the west) would get to rearm them?
Russia and Putin were wrong to invade, but it's not like the West is lily white and innocent in all this.