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SoilVol said:
Sharing some personal stuff, one to kinda get it off my chest and since this is anonymous it helps: My "uncle" (basically family) is a Vandy grad and diehard Vandy baseball fan. He was the coolest guy when I was a little kid. He used to take me to Vandy v UT basketball games in Nashville. But he always had the odd job where he would just disappear. Then he'd show up unannounced at our house with a gift for me. One time, it was an Atlanta Falcons Brett Favre rookie card in perfect condition. I still have it. But really, the last decade or so I haven't seen or talked to him at all. He and my dad started having a rocky relationship because he would disappear and he started drinking heavily. Then about 6 months ago he somehow got my number and started texting me. Offered me a job in New Zealand on the vineyard he was about to buy for when I graduate (we couldn't figure out where in the world he got this money). Started talking Vol and Vandy stuff. Talking about his son. He managed to get Vandy VIP tickets to the College World Series and wanted to take me and my dad to see Vandy and the Vols. He mended things with my dad. It's been cool, but also odd. Recently, everything made sense...

We found out about a month ago that he has terminal bone cancer (mid-50s). And to top it off, the last few decades he's been working for a... let's say... private branch of the government.... and has killed many people.... and speaks fluent Russian. My dad knew he had gotten a minor in Russian and did some ROTC. We didn't know he had gotten that far. That's why he would disappear then come back with wild gifts (signed Messi jersey for his son) and such. And why he had so much money. And why he started struggling with alcoholism.

He informed all his family and closest friends, and he's now in the Ukraine fighting. Assuming he dies, his children will get a massive payout for him volunteering. Through all of that, I've somehow become a local legend over there because he's showing the locals pictures from some of my adventures and fish that I've caught. And he sends me messages in Russian occasionally. Here was today's, Go Vols and appreciate the chance to share:
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Crazy story!
Wish I had an uncle that cool! Ones a doctor, and one is a real life clark griswold that is ridiculously wealthy. He actually got his masters at UT, but has nothing to do with the school.
 
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SoilVol said:
Sharing some personal stuff, one to kinda get it off my chest and since this is anonymous it helps: My "uncle" (basically family) is a Vandy grad and diehard Vandy baseball fan. He was the coolest guy when I was a little kid. He used to take me to Vandy v UT basketball games in Nashville. But he always had the odd job where he would just disappear. Then he'd show up unannounced at our house with a gift for me. One time, it was an Atlanta Falcons Brett Favre rookie card in perfect condition. I still have it. But really, the last decade or so I haven't seen or talked to him at all. He and my dad started having a rocky relationship because he would disappear and he started drinking heavily. Then about 6 months ago he somehow got my number and started texting me. Offered me a job in New Zealand on the vineyard he was about to buy for when I graduate (we couldn't figure out where in the world he got this money). Started talking Vol and Vandy stuff. Talking about his son. He managed to get Vandy VIP tickets to the College World Series and wanted to take me and my dad to see Vandy and the Vols. He mended things with my dad. It's been cool, but also odd. Recently, everything made sense...

We found out about a month ago that he has terminal bone cancer (mid-50s). And to top it off, the last few decades he's been working for a... let's say... private branch of the government.... and has killed many people.... and speaks fluent Russian. My dad knew he had gotten a minor in Russian and did some ROTC. We didn't know he had gotten that far. That's why he would disappear then come back with wild gifts (signed Messi jersey for his son) and such. And why he had so much money. And why he started struggling with alcoholism.

He informed all his family and closest friends, and he's now in the Ukraine fighting. Assuming he dies, his children will get a massive payout for him volunteering. Through all of that, I've somehow become a local legend over there because he's showing the locals pictures from some of my adventures and fish that I've caught. And he sends me messages in Russian occasionally. Here was today's, Go Vols and appreciate the chance to share:
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What a story!
 
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UTgrad2015 said:
Just found out that my wife and I will be having a little girl. First child coming this fall! Dads with daughters.. hit me up with some advice if you feel led.

TYFYS
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I have two. 7&5. Can’t imagine having my brothers wild ass son. My oldest went 2-4 and scored two runs in softball last night 😃
 
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UTgrad2015 said:
Just found out that my wife and I will be having a little girl. First child coming this fall! Dads with daughters.. hit me up with some advice if you feel led.

TYFYS
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Be there for her as much as possible. I have done my very best over the years to try and make sure I do not miss any events. With my line of work, I work a lot of hours and I am on call after hours, too, but I try to be there for her as much as I can. Have your own special time separate from mom. Mine has always been bedtime, because I tend to be getting home not too long before it’s bedtime, so I always put her to bed, say prayers with her, and usually sing a song with her. I have made a conscientious effort lately to give her time with me in the mornings to have a Bible study before I go to work, and I devote time to her at night or make up for it on the weekends to have playtime with her.
 
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UTgrad2015 said:
Just found out that my wife and I will be having a little girl. First child coming this fall! Dads with daughters.. hit me up with some advice if you feel led.

TYFYS
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It is the greatest thing. Congratulations. The first year with the first child is one of the hardest things in marriage. But you can do it, and there is absolutely nothing else that compares to being a dad.
 
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UTgrad2015 said:
Just found out that my wife and I will be having a little girl. First child coming this fall! Dads with daughters.. hit me up with some advice if you feel led.

TYFYS
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Btw, CONGRATS! Being a dad is a blessing! Try to enjoy every moment with her, because you never know if it may be the only child you can have.
 
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Jackcrevol said:
Get your 'dad ears' ready, they should be well practiced if married. They come out of the package ready made with drama.

Get ready, the instant you hold her - to eternity you will be do things, you thought you'd never do. You will love her more than you thought you ever could...until that next little girl is born! And then, again until the boy is born.

It changes you, makes you better and every...day...you have to bring it. Always appreciate every moment, they are fleeting. And, pick up a copy of a Daddy/daughter devotional. Kids have to hear the Word from us. Start early.

Sleep now. Like right now.
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Your best post ever! Agree with all of it! Well said.
 
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OGbabyaviVol said:
Be there for her as much as possible. I have done my very best over the years to try and make sure I do not miss any events. With my line of work, I work a lot of hours and I am on call after hours, too, but I try to be there for her as much as I can. Have your own special time separate from mom. Mine has always been bedtime, because I tend to be getting home not too long before it’s bedtime, so I always put her to bed, say prayers with her, and usually sing a song with her. I have made a conscientious effort lately to give her time with me in the mornings to have a Bible study before I go to work, and I devote time to her at night or make up for it on the weekends to have playtime with her.
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We call it tuck up time and it has become mandatory from my girls.
 
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Jackcrevol said:
Get your 'dad ears' ready, they should be well practiced if married. They come out of the package ready made with drama.

Get ready, the instant you hold her - to eternity you will be do things, you thought you'd never do. You will love her more than you thought you ever could...until that next little girl is born! And then, again until the boy is born.

It changes you, makes you better and every...day...you have to bring it. Always appreciate every moment, they are fleeting. And, pick up a copy of a Daddy/daughter devotional. Kids have to hear the Word from us. Start early.

Sleep now. Like right now.
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This is good dad stuff right here. And I recommend you check out @Jackcrevol napping thread in the Pub. As a dad, it will be critical that you hone your napping skills.
 
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