You didn't ask me but I will offer why I have dug in my heels.
If the order(s) stayed at masking, I may have been more compliant.  For the record, I haven't refused to wear and been kicked out of any establishment.  But the orders didn't stop there and It became political when it wasn't enough.  The outdoor events were canceled unless it was a protest ( a political decision).  Religious groups in NYC are being targeted.  And now, governors are telling people how they can gather in their own home.  The mask is a symbol of safety, a symbol of compliance, and unfortunately is it now a symbol of resistance.