UTK
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Excellent point. I wish all the best for Tee, whether he builds up his resume here at UT or elsewhere, but I think it's important to have as much stability as possible in the coaching staff over the next few years.Tee would be nice to have, but frankly, I don't want to lose David Johnson. He's one of the best at developing WRs in the country. I also think Johnson is more likely to stick around long-term than Tee, who might take an OC job in 2020.
Well, I found that my life got a whole lot better when I decided to let go of the perfection thingy.I can appreciate all that, I do it all the time, as we all see.
Well, I found that my life got a whole lot better when I decided to let go of the perfection thingy.
Even for people not dealing with addiction issues, learning about 12-step programs can really help our lives. It can be amazing and liberating to find that admitting a fault isn't the end of the world.
But besides all that lofty philosophy, I try to clean up after my messes, which are many. ha
I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss.I get that, had a brother that lost his life to addiction. He taught me the 12 step program. He taught me some humility.
Umm, well I could come up with some lame quote like 'bones never lie', or some other ten year old, hackneyed crap like that. But, fact is, I've read that there is friction between the two regarding style from sports writers. No inside info.Not challenging, but just curious: where does your "word is" info come from?
Thanks! I was able to keep up with stuff for a while, but eventually, the endless rumor threads took over, and it's hard to remember what * maybe * was valid info from outside sources vs opinions from VN posters headed back to the fridge for the eighth time.Umm, well I could come up with some lame quote like 'bones never lie', or some other ten year old, hackneyed crap like that. But, fact is, I've read that there is friction between the two regarding style from sports writers. No inside info.
Wish I could 'like' this ten more times. I've got loved ones struggling.I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss.I'm glad that you were able to get something useful (the 12-step philosophy) out of the pain.
--I get very irritable about those who think that addiction is simply a "choice." Yes, there is some volitional aspect to it, but there is also an underlying disease pathology. Many of us do stupid things at some point, but the lucky ones wake up the next day and say, hell, I'm not doing that again. The others get the worm in the brain, and the struggle begins.
So some get hit, and others don't. If you ever went dabbling in drugs and alcohol, and maybe scared the crap out of yourself eventually but didn't get hooked, you should be damn grateful. "There but for the grace of God, go I." If you dodged this bullet, it isn't because you are such a marvelous and indestructible person; you just got effing lucky.
Namaste, y'all.
Well, gee, I had this well-crafted response that just vanished when I tried to edit it... lol, but dammit!W
Wish I could 'like' this ten more times. I've got loved ones struggling.
Well, gee, I had this well-crafted response that just vanished when I tried to edit it... lol, but dammit!
Anyway, what I was trying to post is that much of what underlies addiction issues is the feeling that we are missing out on something. Love, or belonging, or meaningfulness, or something something.
We seem to have lost the idea of what makes A Good Life. There is a heart-hunger, a feeling that our souls have a big old hollow place that needs filling. And there doesn't seem to be anything there to fill it, so we go for stim (stimulation), whether it's alcohol, or drugs, or gambling or sex or whatever.
And that is not accidental. Because meanwhile, there is a HUGE industry that is dependent on making people feel inadequate. Not thin enough, cheekbones aren't high enough, BF/GF isn't hot enough, I'm not rich enough, I don't get laid enough, I'm not respected enough, my hair is too flat/ too fluffy/ too thin/ appearing in the wrong places (way too many wrong places), it's obvious that they aren't going to promote me, my armpits are kinda funky, my car gears down at the wrong point when I am accelerating, and on and on. Someone is making money off of your pain.
If we buy into Mad Ave and media and the general frenzy, if we believe that if we will just do thus-and-so, then we'll be happy. But it's all a lie, and it only makes us feel more lost and hollow. Somehow or another, we have to find where the "real" is, because when we live that, that's the only way that we will feel complete.
So I hope that your loved ones can see through the lies that we are all fed about how-it-ought-to-be and find their real.
And meanwhile, I hope we have a great coach in this position, whether David Johnson or Tee Martin, and Go Effing Vols!
this is a mutual decision from both sides (CDJ and CJP). CJP giving him an opportunity to move on his own. CJP not impressed with his recruiting.
Nelson Agholor, JuJu Smith Shuster, and Marquise Lee were 1st and 2nd round talents coached By Tee Martin. So don’t sit here and play the “Tee is a bad coach because he got fired card” when was the last time TN had a WR picked in the 1st or 2nd round of the draft?? I’ll wait.