NashVOL93
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Really hoping his definition was alcohol induced because he was talking some serious foolishness last night.
Coming from someone who had very similar experiences in their mid-twenties:Need some bro help here guys. Go easy on me please.
I was in a 6 year relationship with the girl I thought I was going to marry, we broke up in 2014 & I've been on like 3 dates since. I met a girl back in September that completely changed things for me. Completely knocked me off my feet. Like everything I've been praying for & more.
She was a few years older than me, we connected, talked for hours upon hours every day about everything under the sun, & we became each other's best friends. She told me countless times "I never want you out of my life I wish I would have met you earlier" blah blah. I've Never felt this way about a girl except for the one I dated for 6 years. I've never been the type to sleep around or date a ton, so when I feel this way about someone it's pretty special.
She randomly just cold turkey stops talking to me about a month ago & it would still be that way if I hadn't text her & told her merry Christmas.
Anyways I just now saw on social media that she's dating some other guy & he's a pilot too, which for some reason makes it sting much worse. I feel absolutely sick at my stomach. What to do from here?
tl;dr: I'm an idiot
Surprised he didn't say he would be a Pg since his body is similar Magic.
It's no more rediculous than to say he'd be a five. The dude weighs 200 lbs. Point guards in the league weigh 200 lbs.
Kyle Alexander is a 5 for Tennessee. He is not an NBA prospect and will not play in the league. He doesnt have the skill set to even play 3 in college, much less the NBA.
I dont recall anyone saying he would play 5 in the league. I believe you were the one that inserted the NBA into the discussion.
Id just move in on from this if I were you. But jmo
The discussion started when we were discussing needs on this team. I said we needed a true five. Bruin said Kyle was a true five. I said he wasn't and you just admitted then same. I never said Kyle was a three. I said his body type was closer to a three than a five. Reading is your friend. If you're going to interject yourself into an argument you should at least know what's being argued. Bruin in his typical manner knew he was wrong so he changed to make it something it wasn't. Jmo
Also the 1-5 labels in basketball are outdated anyways.
Offenses and systems are so fluid these days that there arent always defined 1-5 roles. The stuff we ran was 4 interchangeable guards and a big, and depending on the big in the game they could pop out too.
Your very wrong in this. Multiple people have pointed this out but it appears to be a lost cause.
No worry on my end. Carry on in your thinking.
Also the 1-5 labels in basketball are outdated anyways.
Offenses and systems are so fluid these days that there arent always defined 1-5 roles. The stuff we ran was 4 interchangeable guards and a big, and depending on the big in the game they could pop out too.
Coming from someone who had very similar experiences in their mid-twenties:
Meet more women.
3 dates in 3-4 years is the issue, IMO, especially coming off a 6 year relationship at age 25. No way youve met enough women to be sad about these two.
Take care of yourself, as others have suggested. Download tinder, swipe right on every woman; talk to them, make stupid jokes and get their number. You dont have to sleep around, just go on a couple of dates each month.
If you feel like you have a strong connection with someone and they dump you cold turkey or arent there for you, they werent the right person. It sounds cliche, it sounded cliche when people told me, but more experience makes it make sense.
The discussion started when we were discussing needs on this team. I said we needed a true five. Bruin said Kyle was a true five. I said he wasn't and you just admitted then same. I never said Kyle was a three. I said his body type was closer to a three than a five. Reading is your friend. If you're going to interject yourself into an argument you should at least know what's being argued. Bruin in his typical manner knew he was wrong so he changed to make it something it wasn't. Jmo
