Mays is a Vol legacy from Knoxville, that's been committed since 2015 and is the guy who's been recruiting like crazy the past few years for the Vols. It's a little bigger than the normal de-commit when a he's bailing.
I don't totally disagree with you. I understand that it is troubling, but it isn't burn the house down troubling. When things were going great and its a few years off, the verbal is great and helping to recruit is cruicial. Now it is getting close to ink on paper, and it gets a little more real. This is the time when Cade needs to concentrate on him, and his future.
Look, when you've been committed to a program/coach for so long and it looks like its 100% concrete, other programs will still send you letters and call, but they don't put huge resources in what they think are no percentage grabs. I've seen this happen to kids. Everyone assumes that they are going to a program, alternate schools don't hold that scholarship spot for the kid, something happens and then it causes issues. Now Cade is a 5 star, so i think he could switch last minute and a school would figure out someone else to bump, but there are other issues. He may have gone to GA and the coaches kind of given him a hard time about still being committed to a coach who is gone, and why was he even there? They may have advised him that if he wants a serious look and spot with a school, then he needs to decommit and open that up so other schools give him 100% attention.
I know it hurts TN fans feelings right now, but if you're Cade, its ok to decommit and then go get serious looks at other programs. Then when things settle here and its time to put ink on paper, then you still sign where your heart is. This is a 17 year old kid with big aspirations let him go look and then if he still chooses us, its VFL. If he were to choose elsewhere, then wish him luck. No one 5* is going to make or break this program right now. Recruits isn't our #1 priority right now. We need a coach.
EDIT: I don't know Cade. I've met his father, but haven't seen him in 15 years. This is pure speculation with my experience in the recruiting world and knowing someone that this happened to. Don't take this as 100% gospel as what happened to Cade. Just take it as an opinion or another way to think about it.