Ok guy.... you really are lacking...
Let's make some comparisons here, yes more serious than football but just metaphorically speaking....
Let's start in 1914 for this lesson... it's the women's suffrage era in the USA, Susan B Anthony fights and stands up for equal rights and believes all women should have the right to vote and fights valiantly for it.... if you were a woman then, you would say she was whining and should just accept not voting.
It's December 8th 1941. One day after Japan bombed Pearl Harbor. You wake up and tell the neighbors and friends (if you have any) that it's no big deal, everything is ok, if we do something about it we are just whining. America should just let people bomb us and we should keep our mouths shut.
It's now August 28th 1963, You are Martin Luther King Jr, and you're about to make the biggest speech of equal rights history, it begins with "I have a dream.." ohh but wait you wouldn't have made the speech because you would have been whining and crying...
You're ok with sucking, and that makes you a sucker. Accept that. I don't want to hear you whine about it anymore.