Joc Bruce was involved in what could be called bullying.Jason Croom hit Joc extremely hard in his jaw reason behind it I dont know. But after that he complained of having headaches and a lot of discomfort. He told his mother about what happened which leads me to believe he was afraid. The coaches knew about this but his mother didn't follow up with them about the attack. The kid was let down by his mother as well as the coaching staff they did not protect him. I understand upperclassmen pick on the new guy but this was more. After this altercation he was late for class several times and was suspended and well deserved. But I do believe Joc being afraid of Croom played a major role in this. The mother and the coaches failed this kid. I didn't make this up I grew up with his mom. This is non bias thread so please don't take it as if I'm throwing anyone under the bus. 100% true info
Jeez, this is a weird thread. The consensus (and it is nearly unanimous) is that Bruce deserved to get punched by someone twice his size for talking back and stepping on the T? We now officially believe that violence is the best reaction to disrespect?
Sure, we might say that it doesn't bode as poorly for Croom if the attack was provoked. Sure, we can say that Bruce wasn't exactly completely innocent. That makes a difference. But to sit around and praise Croom for clocking somebody is just insane.
And what is this whole "what happens in the locker room stays in the locker room" nonsense? It isn't Vegas. It isn't international waters. Do you think this holds for everything? If a player beat someone into a coma in the locker room? If there was legitimate persistent bullying? If they raped another player? Look, I get that a punch isn't as severe, but the "whatever happens in" mantra is absurd, and it is not that much less absurd just because the situation is less dramatic.
Unless Bruce punched him first, Croom screwed up. Croom deserved to be punished. And Croom sure as heck doesn't deserve to be praised, and lifted up as a hero of the program. Punching a much smaller freshman, somebody who was decent enough to take a blue shirt, and who seemed to love UT, is not heroic.
Were you there? Have you ever been on a team? The locker room is sacred ground. It's nobody's business but the teams inside those walls. Obviously under extreme circumstances that you suggested that wouldn't be the case, but something like this happens everywhere. This is not a big deal unless this was something that occurred more than a couple times between Croom and Bruce.
I wonder if your child would have wanted to go to class if Croom punched them in the mouth
No, and if you read my posts you'd know this. I am not condemning Croom, or saying what did or did not happen. I am criticizing VN posters who know nothing other than "Bruce was disrespectful and got punched" and who praise Croom for that.
I'm not making lite of bullying, but I got in fights in school as well as other kids. I never seen nobody quit class or sports over getting punched. I'm not saying that isn't the case, it just seems odd to get hit once, and be that scared.
It was a fight in a football locker room between an 18 and 21 year old guys. That's not bullying. Toughen up. If Bruce is the one who's gone and Croom isn't then Butch obviously thought whatever happened that Croom wasn't the one in the wrong.
