Isaiah 55:8-9
"8 For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD.
9 For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts."
Sometimes, God's answer to our prayers is no. It doesn't mean because he said no, that he is no longer active in this world. As the scripture says, his ways and thoughts are higher than ours. You just have to trust in Him. I lost my uncle when I was 9...he was only 29. Never understood why God would take someone so young, but it's not for me to decide. His ways and thoughts are much higher than mine. I know my prayers are left in the best hands possible, and I know He will do hat is in His will. Do you think it was fair His only Son came to this earth to live a perfect life, yet die a cruel death on the cross, so what we can have a hope of eternal life? Absolutely not, but He did it, and God even said no to his own Son who prayed, "if it be possible, let this cup pass from me." This was speaking of his coming crucifixion. I will stop after this as well, so the thread is no longer derailed.