n_huffhines
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I'm wondering what is normal behavior? I have a few questions and then the drama is below if you want context for why I'm asking:
Would you be concerned if your wife and her friends spent a good deal of their time *****ing about you or is that just what wives do?
Do you keep things from your spouse? What kind of things and why?
Do you check your spouse's phone, either secretly or with them knowing?
Context:
My wife and I have friends that we are concerned about. The wives in the group are always *****ing about their husbands and my wife doesn't really like to hang out with them unless the guys are around because of it.
Couple 1 are our best friends in the group.
Wife 2 is pretty much cheating on her husband and I guess he is moving out. Wife 1 told my wife not to tell me and that she hasn't told her husband? Why not?
Wife 3 is pretty unhappy with her husband. Not sure if it's gossip getting blown out of proportion or if they are actually in trouble. Wife 1 tells my wife not to tell me and that she hasn't told her husband.
Husband 4 is a cheater and all the wives hate him for it, despite the fact that they are all hiding that wife 2 is cheating. He even hit on wife 1. Another thing I'm not supposed to know about and her husband doesn't know.
I think couple 1 and couple 3 can be saved but I feel like we need to get them away from the group. Maybe I'm just over-reacting because it's not how our relationship works and those 2 are just fine?
Would you be concerned if your wife and her friends spent a good deal of their time *****ing about you or is that just what wives do?
Do you keep things from your spouse? What kind of things and why?
Do you check your spouse's phone, either secretly or with them knowing?
Context:
My wife and I have friends that we are concerned about. The wives in the group are always *****ing about their husbands and my wife doesn't really like to hang out with them unless the guys are around because of it.
Couple 1 are our best friends in the group.
Wife 2 is pretty much cheating on her husband and I guess he is moving out. Wife 1 told my wife not to tell me and that she hasn't told her husband? Why not?
Wife 3 is pretty unhappy with her husband. Not sure if it's gossip getting blown out of proportion or if they are actually in trouble. Wife 1 tells my wife not to tell me and that she hasn't told her husband.
Husband 4 is a cheater and all the wives hate him for it, despite the fact that they are all hiding that wife 2 is cheating. He even hit on wife 1. Another thing I'm not supposed to know about and her husband doesn't know.
I think couple 1 and couple 3 can be saved but I feel like we need to get them away from the group. Maybe I'm just over-reacting because it's not how our relationship works and those 2 are just fine?