Now I agree with this. Technology can be good, but I know college kids (young men) who can't change a flat tire. Many who can't Cook, stuff likes that brothers me.
Yeah, I know what you mean.
But I'm not so much concerned with these things.
I don't necessarily expect a kid to go to college in order to learn how to change a flat or to wash clothes, although I know what you're saying.
We're talking about college things here. I would hope parents teach them these things beforehand.
I know I sound like the biggest crazy ass on here (but that's mostly because the rest of you don't realize how ****ing crazy you are). But I'm about to help you out.
Anyone you wants their kids to go to college and is hoping not to have them completely ransacked by an idiotic liberal instructor, listen to the following. Please.
1. Give your children instruction as you would prefer, but let them also know that there are alternatives. Don't act like the world is one thing and one thing only. Help them to see the world in the way you would like. But also help them understand that there are many different perspectives. If you teach and show them well enough of your way, then they will come back to you. If not, then it's no big deal. They will still respect you. You did what you could.
2. When your child questions you, don't freak out. Just act like it's normal (even if you really are freaked out). Play along. Try to answer his or her questions as best as you can, and as honestly as you can. And that's doing your job. Honestly, you can't do anymore than that.
3. Limit his or her access to video games/social media/Internet/etc. These are good things, and, god help me, I love them to death, for better or for worse, but let your child understand that there are other alternatives to connected to the outer world.
One of my ways of doing this was consulting my encyclopedias early on. That's how I built a love of Russia and foreign places so early.
But maybe your child will build a love of tech, or law, or god knows what.
But I do recommend limiting their access to social media and the Internet.
I'm serious. I don't mean to be a hardass curmudgeon, but these kids I've dealt with at UT, despite their ACT scores, half of them don't know their head from their ass.
4. Finally, yes, as you mentioned, teach them practical things. Changing oil, changing tires, how to work a table or circle saw, how to etc. I can do quite a few things, but there is a lot I wish my father would have taught me. And part of that is my own fault. I never showed much interest. Now I regret it.
Anyhow, keep your children's eyes on these things. Keep them constantly interested in things. When they're asked a question, make sure they are invested in the answer.
I shouldn't be so hard on my students. I've had many good ones. Much better than what I was when I was that age.
But it troubles me how mindless some of them can be.
And these are some tips I can provide you for avoiding that and for saving them the embarrassment.
I'm not a callous guy.
I just expect good things out of people.
Hopefully this helps.