Crush and Slice - I have a question and though we may differ on our views, I do genuinely respect your opinions on this topic. My point is that this is not meant to be a loaded question, nor am I attempting to challenge your faith with the question. It is just a question that has long troubled me.
Why does all of the credit go to god when good things happen in your life, but no blame when things go poorly? I was married to an alcoholic who was extremely religious though she had no substantial religious knowledge. While she was sober she would say that she had nothing to do with sobriety, it was all god. When she fell off the wagon, however, she shouldered all of the blame. It seems like a strange contradiction and I would like to hear your thoughts.
I have no problem with an earnest question and while my thoughts are hard to define I will do my best.
While I believe every good thing is from the L-rd I believe He allows everything else as well. I believe there are times when the L-rd does not bless those who have sinned even though they are redeemed.
For example king David sinned and was under judgement
David prayed to God on behalf of the child; David fasted, then came and lay all night on the ground. 17 The court officials got up and stood next to him trying to get him off the ground, but he refused, and he wouldnt eat food with them. 18 On the seventh day, the child died. The servants of David were afraid to tell him that the child was dead, because they said, While the child was still alive, we spoke to him, and he didnt listen to us; if we tell him now that the child is dead, he may do himself some harm. 19 But when David saw his servants whispering to each other, he suspected that the child was dead. David asked his servants, Is the child dead? and they answered, He is dead.
20 Then David got up off the ground, washed, anointed himself and changed his clothes. He went into the house of Adonai and worshipped; then he went to his own palace; and when he asked for food, they served it to him; and he ate
Notice David's response to his servents questions
His servants asked him, What are you doing? You fasted and wept for the child while it was alive; but now that the child is dead, you get up and eat food! 22 He answered, While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept; because I thought, Maybe Adonai will show his grace to me and let the child live. 23 But now that hes dead, why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not return to me.
And how did David live on?
David comforted his wife Bat-Sheva, came to her and went to bed with her; she gave birth to a son and named him Shlomo. Adonai loved him 25 and sent through Natan the prophet to have him named Ydidyah [loved by God], for Adonais sake.
I, like David, love YHVH for who He is and not what he can give me or do for me.
If He blesses me the I'm grateful. If I'm under judgement ( which I currently believe I am for something that I won't go into here) then its righteous judgement and mine to own.
Either way I choose to live my life as Job did. When he faced the possibility of his own death ....
15 Though he slay me, yet will I hope in him;
I will surely[a] defend my ways to his face.
It may seem odd to some but that's where I'm at.
And I know a lot of you hate all the scripture but that's the foundation of my life.
Let's try it another way.... It was Ice T who said " you don't like my lifestyle?!? F you!"