I am an ahole at times. Just view the politics as a nice diversion. I don't have any personal issues with anyone on here. I don't put people on ignore and the back and forth $hit talking is just fun. You can't take offense to what is said here because you never really know whether the views espoused are deeply held or just troll statements. My personal opinion is that the posters on here have a lot more common ground than they realize and the differences aren't insurmountable, but we've been conditioned to demonize based on nothing more than (R) or (D).
Thanks for the good wishes and right back at ya.
.....and you haven't had Dink nipping at your heels, grabbing your leg, and barking at you like a damn Rat Terrier either.I am an ahole at times. Just view the politics as a nice diversion. I don't have any personal issues with anyone on here. I don't put people on ignore and the back and forth $hit talking is just fun. You can't take offense to what is said here because you never really know whether the views espoused are deeply held or just troll statements. My personal opinion is that the posters on here have a lot more common ground than they realize and the differences aren't insurmountable, but we've been conditioned to demonize based on nothing more than (R) or (D).
Thanks for the good wishes and right back at ya.
Alcoholism is hard. When I was married to her, I thought my will power would be enough to stop her from drinking. I emptied the house of booze. I didn't drink. I cut off her funding for alcohol. She'd drink the rubbing alcohol in the house. She drink hand sanitizer, the vanilla anything she thought would do the trick. I went through numerous home detoxes with her, she went to short term rehab (less than 30 days), long term rehab (some more than a year) and she would still come out and get messed up. The last few times she hasn't been drinking, but she started doing DXM (cough suppressant pills). It is definitely a sad spiral that nobody but the afflicted individual can stop.
When my daughter was 7 she had to call the police on her mom because she was going to drive. The cops baker acted her mom and took her away in a police car. I was incredibly proud of my daughter because just calling the police was a display of courage that I am not sure I could have followed through on. It was a shame she had to see so much so early, but she is a strong willed good hearted kid which is a curse and a blessing of its own.
But my point was, before I digressed into story time was that alcoholism is very real and impacts friends and family as much as it impacts the drunk.
Lol, right. I bet your wife muscles her way into the front of the chocolate fondue line at Golden Corral.
Do you hire tuba players to follow her around or are they just naturally drawn to her.
This thread has been derailed and maybe there should be a thread on this topic because I'm almost certain everyone here has a family member or friend that has alcohol or drug problems, but I commend you for trying your best to help her.
I have a nephew that has had drug problems most of his adult life. He is in rehab in Delray Beach, FL again for the umpteenth time and his parents are at a dead end with him.