This is completely out of control at this point. This should be viewed as a life decision for young Mr. Arnett. Our lives are governed by rules. For any of you that have experienced illness of a close loved one you understand that sometimes you have to make life altering decisions.
I was homesick my first semester in school. I went to my coach and told him I wanted to transfer closer to home. He told me he would release me after the.spring semester if I still wanted to go. I dedicated myself in the winter and spring practice giving an honest effort, earned a starting position and stayed. Tough decision 500 miles from home but I made the right choice.
I lived in Alcoa for 6 years. I had a job making a very good living. My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 (terminal) lung cancer in 2009. I made the tough decision to move back home to help my mom and be with my dad. My company did not have any positions available here so I decided to take a job making considerably less. Tough decision to move from the foot hills of the smokies. I miss east Tennessee everyday, but I made the best choice given the circumstances. I have been able to spend time with my family that I would have missed out on and I would have regretted not coming home the rest of my life.
Life is a series of choices. Time to step up and be a man son and stop blaming others for holding you accountable. If you feel like you've made the wrong choice, suck it up, make the changes you need with the options available and make the best of your opportunities. You have a chance that 99% of the other people reading this thread will never have...to play a game, get and education, spend time with your family and experience things you never will have the opportunity in Saginaw.