I appreciate everything you are saying. I’m a youth minister of 18 years. I for one, are one of the kinds of people who struggle with keeping my heart checked with things. Your post is a good reminder to us.
But I do want to counter at least a bit. Often times we look at people who get bent out of shape “over a game” and automatically assume their priorities are out of line. To an extent you’re right, but there’s more to it then I believe you are unpacking.
Things like Tennessee Football for die hard fans isn’t just about having a reason to crack a beer, trashing talking other fans of schools etc. For most there are memories with fathers, brothers and families. There’s reasons for families to get together (I know I know get together for something other than sport...well history shows us sport and art have always been reasons for communities and families to gather and build relationships...Aztecs, Romans, Greeks, Egyptians, Persians, etc...), and there is community built and relationships made and deepened around shared memories. Some of this isn’t just a game.
There’s a reason tennessee football has a stadium the size it does in a town the size of Knoxville. There’s a reason Indiana HS basketball is SO big (born and raised there), it’s a part of the culture and fabric of the local people.
If you bake some cheap cake and drop it bummer. If you make a cake with your child for your husbands birthday and you drop it, you may shed tears and it ruins your night. You have a wedding cake delivered and it’s dropped at the reception and can’t be used, there’s a part of your heart that’s hurt for your life. My point is things have MEANING. And placing meaning on things doesn’t automatically mean “we’re out of whack.”
God made us with human characteristics. I believe some of this is our fallen nature, but some of it is pure and GOOD.