Was anyone else told to stay seated during the game by the usher?

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#126
how ridiculas skoalbean. when you are 70 then your going to watch at home.....Rite then you will be complaining. there is no respect for elders anymore
 
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#127
#127
"You dang kids and your standin up cheering at a ball game!"

"SIT DOWN AND SHUT UP!!!"


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skoalbeans said:
70 yr olds have no business going to a vols game in the first place. Watch from home IMO. Dangerous.
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How old are you? Do you pay big bucks to support
Tennessee Athletics or any kind of endowment? 70 yr olds have the right be go and do as they darn well please, the same as any other aged person. The day will come when YOU"RE 70 too and you'll see how it feels to be disrespected.. I'm not 70 yet I hate to see how our seniors (and I am one) are treated... You weren't raised right.. that's my opinion and we've all got one, you young whippersnapper!

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I was in section W row 55 and we stood for most of the game...because the offense wasn't on the field a lot. But, with as crowded as it was, it was much more comfortable standing. Anytime we sat, there were knees in our back or we had to twist all funny to avoid bumping into the guys in front of us. Overall, it was AWESOME!
 
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UT_King said:
Honestly, what did people expect going to a night game in Neyland, nationally televised, one of the most hyped games in years, between 2 top 25 teams? If they have had the seats for 50 years, they would know its not going to be a mild, sit down kind of game.
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#134
section HH row 2 are u kidding me, there is one row in front of you and when u stand Everybody behind you stands. you can see the game any better by standing,you are still the same distance away...good grief...what if it was your parents being disrespected.
 
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FancyBoyVol said:
Those people are my parents.

Yes, it is your right to cheer for your Vols, as loudly and rapturously as you like. But...

No, it is not your "right" to stand or engage in other activities that impinges on the ability of others to enjoy the game.

A little backstory. My father, 80 this month, has just recently undergone heart surgery, has gout in both legs, yet managed the almost 30-minute walk from the hotel, up the numerous ramps, to sit in HH. My mother, 76, has survived brain aneurysm surgery, multiple leg fractures, and being married to my father. The trek up to Section HH is arduous for them both, but their love of the Vols compels them to repeat this exercise for every home game.

My parents bought their seats in HH in 1976. They have had numerous opportunities and offers for different seats but have stayed loyal to those seats for reasons that are too numerous to elucidate here. Suffice it to say, there are both practical and immensely sentimental concerns involved.

Quick math will show that they have been in those seats for almost 40 years, and they have been going to games in Neyland for almost 60.

The entire section around them has been virtually the same people for many of those years. So, just to be clear, your behavior and activities didn't just affect my parents, but dozens of season ticket holders in the section.

My parents (and other elderly in the section) cannot stand the whole game, or on every other play, or whenever you deem appropriate. From multiple accounts, you and your wife were, at best, tone-deaf to the situation and climate of what was appropriate, and, at worst, downright disrespectful. My parents left in the 3rd quarter because of your actions.

The attitude of "I paid my money - I can do what I want" is falsely entitled and dangerous. In this particular instance, you and your wife were in the wrong. There is a reason the usher sided with my parents (and the rest of the section). My mom hated that you banged your metal seat throughout the first half but understands that is part and parcel of the game atmosphere. What everyone in the section took exception to was your defiance and intentional blocking of the view of other spectators in the section - spectators who would love the ability to stand and jump but can't because of age and genetics.

And just a technical note, you were in the second row of the upper deck. There is no practical reason for you to stand. There was literally no one blocking you.

All of the above is truth. It may not have been what you wanted or expected but sometimes we must temper those feelings and take into account the well-being of others.
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First of all that is a wonderful story about your parents and their love for the Vols. Season tickets since 1976 sounds like a passionate couple.

The been sitting in that section for 40 years comment in irrelevant to me and this issue.

It was the beginning of the game and the couple beside us (whom i didn't know) was told immediately on the first kick off to "sit your butts down" by a older woman the row above (once again not insinuating it was your parent as I don't know" After that me and my wife looked at each and was like wow that was awfully rude she didn't even asked she demanded.

Later on in the first quarter the first interaction with my wife and the older lady was the older lady aggressively telling my wife "to sit her butt down, because we sit down in this section" My wife then told the woman respectfully even though she did not deserve it at that time "that she paid alot of money for her ticket and if she was excited she was going to stand up and cheer." At that time the older woman said once again rather aggressively "well if you paid for those seats then sit down in them" At that time the usher approached my wife and asked her to sit down, which she did.

The fact that you claim i intentionally blocked the view of others around is quite erroneous . Me and my wife like any other fans stood on third down, sacks and interceptions. and on offense we sat and were quiet if we made a run into the end zone yes excitement took over and we stood.

During another big play on defense the older man looked at my wife and told her to "Sit down and shut up" at this point my wife started to cry and I looked at the older man and said "Sir, that enough" At that time the other older man directly behind me apologized for the other older man's actions and I high fived him on the next big play. Another 3rd down happened and once again the older man and woman attacked my wife and the older man said "sit your butt down in your seat that you paid for and shut up". At that time I'd had had enough of the disrespect shown to my wife and said "Sir, that is enough, would you like me to talk to you wife that way" The older man just looked at me with a blank stare.

Also, you stating i banged my chair throughout the entire first half is very true, and i did it the entire 2nd half as well I wanted to be LOUD for Neyland..

The fact that I'm being accused of standing the entire game ( which how could I because obviously i would have to sit down to bang the metal chair beside me...ever seen someone bang a fold out chair beside them by standing up, my arms aren't long enough for that lol) is not true.

The fact that I'm being told i was disrespectful to the old people behind me is not true, cause every time i spoke I did it respectfully even when the older group did not deserve it.

I apologize for your family's bad experience on my behalf, however seeing my wife cry on behalf of another man is something that doesn't sit well with me..

Go Vols
 
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FancyBoyVol said:
Those people are my parents.

Yes, it is your right to cheer for your Vols, as loudly and rapturously as you like. But...

No, it is not your "right" to stand or engage in other activities that impinges on the ability of others to enjoy the game.

A little backstory. My father, 80 this month, has just recently undergone heart surgery, has gout in both legs, yet managed the almost 30-minute walk from the hotel, up the numerous ramps, to sit in HH. My mother, 76, has survived brain aneurysm surgery, multiple leg fractures, and being married to my father. The trek up to Section HH is arduous for them both, but their love of the Vols compels them to repeat this exercise for every home game.

My parents bought their seats in HH in 1976. They have had numerous opportunities and offers for different seats but have stayed loyal to those seats for reasons that are too numerous to elucidate here. Suffice it to say, there are both practical and immensely sentimental concerns involved.

Quick math will show that they have been in those seats for almost 40 years, and they have been going to games in Neyland for almost 60.

The entire section around them has been virtually the same people for many of those years. So, just to be clear, your behavior and activities didn't just affect my parents, but dozens of season ticket holders in the section.

My parents (and other elderly in the section) cannot stand the whole game, or on every other play, or whenever you deem appropriate. From multiple accounts, you and your wife were, at best, tone-deaf to the situation and climate of what was appropriate, and, at worst, downright disrespectful. My parents left in the 3rd quarter because of your actions.

The attitude of "I paid my money - I can do what I want" is falsely entitled and dangerous. In this particular instance, you and your wife were in the wrong. There is a reason the usher sided with my parents (and the rest of the section). My mom hated that you banged your metal seat throughout the first half but understands that is part and parcel of the game atmosphere. What everyone in the section took exception to was your defiance and intentional blocking of the view of other spectators in the section - spectators who would love the ability to stand and jump but can't because of age and genetics.

And just a technical note, you were in the second row of the upper deck. There is no practical reason for you to stand. There was literally no one blocking you.

All of the above is truth. It may not have been what you wanted or expected but sometimes we must temper those feelings and take into account the well-being of others.
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This is all understandable, but when I reach the age I can't physically do something, I'll probably not do that thing anymore.

It sounds like they can barely make it to the seats, much less sit there for several hours.

I appreciate their dedication, but when you can't ride the ride, don't buy the ticket.
 
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#138
No one asked me or my crew to sit down. However my season tickets are in Y just in front of the wheelchair rails. So I try to be considerate of those less fortunate but Saturday I gave my all and stood with a slight lean so they could see. And of course sat down on O and raised hell when we were on D
 
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Volition 1.0 said:
This is all understandable, but when I reach the age I can't physically do something, I'll probably not do that thing anymore.

It sounds like they can barely make it to the seats, much less sit there for several hours.

I appreciate their dedication, but when you can't ride the ride, don't buy the ticket.
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Nailed it.
 
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Stevorino said:
I don't think OP was disrespectful at all.

Look - if you can't stand, you do one of two things:

- Stay home
- Purchase a seat where you can be guaranteed a sitting view


What those elderly people did is the equivalent of going to Six Flags, jumping on the biggest roller coaster in the park, and requesting that the ride go at 25% speed.

I get that some people are physically limited, and that is unfortunate. But it's not fair to everyone else on the ride who waited/paid full price to get the full experience because you want to modify your own.

I've seen it suggested here before, but I really do think it's a good idea to have a section or two of the stadium as designated sitting sections where you must sit except for big plays and touchdowns.
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Yes because being a partial jerk can never beat that full blown experience of going full jerk.
 
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#141
#141
We had numerous rows of fans standing on the bleachers which was annoying. Don't mind at all fans standing up. It was not that long ago plenty of room to stretch out and sleep.
 
#142
#142
so when someone was rude to you and your wife is cause to retaliate........2 wrongs dont make a rite. man u were on row 2....good grief
someone needs to be the better person, that is what is wrong with the world.
 
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Volition 1.0 said:
This is all understandable, but when I reach the age I can't physically do something, I'll probably not do that thing anymore.

It sounds like they can barely make it to the seats, much less sit there for several hours.

I appreciate their dedication, but when you can't ride the ride, don't buy the ticket.
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Completely agree. I think it is wonderful that this 80 year old man and his 76 year old wife have supported and enjoyed the Vols for so many years, but there comes a time when their health and safety should be considered first. I think I would have a serious talk with my parents (and my parents are getting there, 62) if they have medical conditions like these when they are 80 and the insist on going to the games. Plus, it doesn't sound like they are enjoying themselves if they are so quick to complain about people standing.
 
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volspeach said:
I am short ok.... if someone stands in front of me, I look at the Jumobtron or peek around the person in front of me or I stand up but then there's no one behind us.

Now when I get upset with people standing...is when I'm trying to film the Pride or the team doing the circle of life drill and people walk in front of me.. grrrrrrrrrrrrrr now them's fighting words, LOL .. it never ever fails!! :thud: Where is my stool?:p
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this off off topic but can you film the March to the Stadium ? I can't find a new one ,this is one of them

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WaTbniMUr8k&feature=related[/youtube]


I have no idea why the video isn't working either :)
 
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FlVol71 said:
Completely agree. I think it is wonderful that this 80 year old man and his 76 year old wife have supported and enjoyed the Vols for so many years, but there comes a time when their health and safety should be considered first. I think I would have a serious talk with my parents (and my parents are getting there, 62) if they have medical conditions like these when they are 80 and the insist on going to the games. Plus, it doesn't sound like they are enjoying themselves if they are so quick to complain about people standing.
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I'm sure you mean well... but some day you will look back and realize how foolish and misguided your "consideration for elders" is. And I'm guessing that if you shared this thread and your post with your parents, they would tell you the same thing.
 
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IBlvNTmWrk said:
I'm sure you mean well... but some day you will look back and realize how foolish and misguided your "consideration for elders" is. And I'm guessing that if you shared this thread and your post with your parents, they would tell you the same thing.
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I'm not sure what your point or issue is with what I said, but my parents would appreciate me caring enough for them and being concerned for their well being to respectfully listen and understand my concerns. I don't believe they would tell me I'm foolish and misguided for bringing up some legitimate concerns. Did you read the health issues with these "elders"?
 
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#149
Stand and be loud on defense or big plays, sit and be (mostly) quiet on offense. Simple concept. All of the drunk woo girls in the student section struggle immensely with this, though.
 
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FlVol71 said:
I'm not sure what your point or issue is with what I said, but my parents would appreciate me caring enough for them and being concerned for their well being to respectfully listen and understand my concerns. I don't believe they would tell me I'm foolish and misguided for bringing up some legitimate concerns. Did you read the health issues with these "elders"?
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Concern is wonderful and appreciated... telling your parents or suggesting what other 70 and 80 year olds should and should not do is most likely not appreciated.
 
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