Cdywolfe
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Yeah that wouldn't be good..... I thought you were single
Well first off, if we're being honest, it's not like I've got women just throwing themselves at me. I've never really much trouble getting laid but also generally had to some effort into making it happen. I've only had just fall into lap a couple of times and, not to sound like a p****, generally found to be far less enjoyable in those instances.
Secondly, I'm a math guy and think of everything in numbers. I look at almost all decisions by their risk/reward ratio. Basically, how much is this worth to me compared to what it cost (or potentially could)?
I'm fairly certain my wife would leave me if I cheated on her and got caught. My kids are hands down my 3 favorite people and basically my life at this point and my wife is an extremely close 4th. So cheating has the potential to completely destroy my family. Best I could hope for is having my kids half the time and would have my wife none of the time. She's also from Northern California. I don't think she would move back, as she's created a life here, but her mom and sisters are there so couldn't promise you she wouldn't. All that means is that, as I'm not gonna live 2k miles away from my kids, I'd have to move to Northern California too. Which I really don't want to do.
Looking at all that and even a dumby could see that cheating has a horrible risk/reward ratio. It kinda makes monogamy a lot easier.
