My thoughts and heart go out to you on the horrible, and albeit, traumatic decision of your daughter. Having lived in BAMA for 16 years as a TN fan, I can understand COMPLETELY you angst at such a decision. I blame all her cohorts at school for pressuring her into making such a terrible decision, but peer pressure is what it is... and I also blame St. Nick. Why, if he hadn't have shown up, they would still suck, and there might have been a chance to rescue this poor child from her ill fated choice.
Life is full of choices and it would be nice if we could make them for our kids, but we can't. They have to learn it on their own. BAMA can be a rude and crude school, and she will learn this in time. Then maybe, just maybe, she will realize that "Father DOES know Best". One can only hope she will not be corrupted completely and be a BAMMER for life.
Yes siree, I feel for ya brother.