I do not know if it is just the stress we are both going to or what, but things have slowed down considerably over the past handful of months.
Finally, we broke down and went to see a sex therapist. One of the things the therapist advised us to do was to watch some pornography together; that did not help. After a few more visits, our therapist decided we should try something a little more extreme. She told us that my fiance should find someone she finds very attractive and that we should invite him into our bedroom, to stand nude in front of her and wave a towel in her face while I do my thing from behind her.
So, in desperation, we decided to follow her advice. The fiance found a guy, invited him over and we proceeded to do as the therapist instructed. However, still nothing was happening. Then the guy suggested that him and I switch places. I stood in front of my fiance, furiously waving the towel in her face, and in less than two or three minutes, my fiance was screaming and moaning.
I leaned across to that little punk, and with great pride, exclaimed, "Now that is how you wave a towel!"
Finally, we broke down and went to see a sex therapist. One of the things the therapist advised us to do was to watch some pornography together; that did not help. After a few more visits, our therapist decided we should try something a little more extreme. She told us that my fiance should find someone she finds very attractive and that we should invite him into our bedroom, to stand nude in front of her and wave a towel in her face while I do my thing from behind her.
So, in desperation, we decided to follow her advice. The fiance found a guy, invited him over and we proceeded to do as the therapist instructed. However, still nothing was happening. Then the guy suggested that him and I switch places. I stood in front of my fiance, furiously waving the towel in her face, and in less than two or three minutes, my fiance was screaming and moaning.
I leaned across to that little punk, and with great pride, exclaimed, "Now that is how you wave a towel!"